has this happened to you?, didn't know where to put this topic.. Options

[wishonthestars]

At your school, your not seen as pretty or hott. But when your out in public with guys that you don't know - they honk their horns, say unappropriate things (sex related), stare, smile, etc?

I don't get it at all! What's the difference?
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But sometimes when I get hit on, I feel dirty and like I want to go back to being seen as unpretty...yet I have no clue why. =[

[LittleLulu]

Like the ppl ubove me have said, i think in highschool if you're not in the "popular " crowd then boys won't be so keen in telling their friends that they like you.

For example, a guy in the popular guy's circle could like a girl, but not want ppl to know because she has a reputation of being nerdy or geeky or a loser or something along those lines, you know what i mean. But a label is just a label, it says nothing about who you are.

as for me, at school i don't get that much attention from guys. And quite frankly i couldn't care less. There have been a few times though, like some guy yelling "GO ALICE" when i demonstrated the macarena infront of the class and shaked my butt --_--", very embarrissing. And i found it EXTREMELY amusing when a guy of indian ethnicity who was a senior said "dayuumm" when i walked by him in the hallway. mainly because i didn't know he was referring to me until my friend pointed it out 3 seconds later.

While outside of highschool...HA. i've had hobos harrass me by touching my hair ...and this VERY old man wiggle his tongue at me as he drived by. It was truly disturbing.