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 Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM
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 facedown  Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 276,252  |
At your school, your not seen as pretty or hott. But when your out in public with guys that you don't know - they honk their horns, say unappropriate things (sex related), stare, smile, etc?
I don't get it at all! What's the difference? --- But sometimes when I get hit on, I feel dirty and like I want to go back to being seen as unpretty...yet I have no clue why. =[ |
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Dec 30 2005, 01:10 AM
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YAY . I can answer this one.
My driving instructor told me the answer to your problem. Since you mention older males also "mexican" males in general. Hehe. It's a cultrual thing. They don't necessary think you are HOT they just do it to bug you. They know that you get annoyed and they see it in your eyes and they get the joy of seeing you upset at a compliment. Take it in stride , someone looked at you. BTW my driving instructor is Chilean (LATINO) , so he kinda knows. It's all cultural kiddos and besides people at school don't usually hollar because they see you everyday and they know you would take in a wrong way .  DONE.
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Dec 30 2005, 01:36 AM
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QUOTE(innocentwinky @ Dec 30 2005, 1:10 AM) YAY . I can answer this one. My driving instructor told me the answer to your problem. Since you mention older males also "mexican" males in general. Hehe. It's a cultrual thing. They don't necessary think you are HOT they just do it to bug you. They know that you get annoyed and they see it in your eyes and they get the joy of seeing you upset at a compliment. Take it in stride , someone looked at you. BTW my driving instructor is Chilean (LATINO) , so he kinda knows. It's all cultural kiddos and besides people at school don't usually hollar because they see you everyday and they know you would take in a wrong way . DONE. my mom and older sister told me how to deal wit this....I find it hilarious when I start cussing them out in spanish hehe they get all defensive  but classifiying them as "mexicans" is kinda (no offense) racist I guess. Not to sound arrogant and stuff but yeah guys like me at school and is good is not jus "one type" of guy (hopefully yall kno wat i mean) though i get more attention at lets say the mall...All that matters is that u get noticed...and ur hopefully attracting the right kind of attention 
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wishonthestars has this happened to you? Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM
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like people try to pick up me ... Jan 9 2006, 06:56 AM maddi. Heh. Happened to me like once. This guy at the smo... Jan 9 2006, 08:01 AM Smoogrish Yeah.. I feel pretty darn dirty when people outsid... Jan 9 2006, 07:29 PM Evil_One1 Dude, I know what you mean!
Only one guy in m... Jan 10 2006, 08:25 PM FoxBandCutie08 Maybe they act like that because you have a certai... Jan 13 2006, 05:32 PM |
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