jealous of ex's, is it normal? |
 Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
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is being jealous of your bf/gf's ex(es) normal? why should you feel bad, if they dont care about them anymore? (its different if they do still care, i suppose) what can you do to prevent it?
i can understand why he feels bad when he thinks about me and my ex doing stuff together.. i mean, i was his first kiss but he wasn't mine.. but he gets jealous every time my ex(first boyfriend) is mentioned, even though we dont talk anymore. is there anything i can say to stop him from thinking about it / being jealous about it? i really dont want him to be hurt like this from something that doesnt even exist anymore. |
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Dec 30 2005, 12:51 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I'm in a similar situation but reversed. I hate it whenever my boyfriend brings up his ex's and whatever he did with them.
But I guess you just have to console him that that was the past and this is the present. You can't change the past. However, you're with him now aren't you? That means that there was something that attracted you to him in the first place, and something that's keeping you with him too. Just focus on that. The past is the past but the present is now, and that's what really matters. |
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anoniez jealous of ex's Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
anubis it's not a pleasant feeling to him, not to men... Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM anoniez oops.. when i said mentioned, i didnt mean that it... Dec 29 2005, 09:35 PM flaymzofice Like anubis said, it's mostly to do with what ... Dec 29 2005, 09:50 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Right, but think of it this way:
You're prett... Dec 29 2005, 09:58 PM
anubis QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Dec 29 2005, 8:58 ... Dec 29 2005, 10:07 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Whoops. I guess I got a little confused. It's ... Dec 29 2005, 10:11 PM anoniez hahah, its ok; im sure i can turn that around to s... Dec 29 2005, 10:33 PM krnxswat It's okay. I'm kind of in that situation (... Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM Chii ugh, my ex used to be like that. i know what it... Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM LittleLulu i've never dated any men who've had ex... Dec 30 2005, 05:55 AM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM)
sometimes... Dec 30 2005, 10:47 AM da_SALSA I understand your boyfriend's feelings. I disl... Dec 31 2005, 12:42 AM pinayprincess either the guy is jealous or the girl is jealous [... Jan 1 2006, 11:53 AM Zlatko .... Feb 1 2006, 11:09 AM lilxl0ser maybe he needs some assurance. lols just tell him ... Feb 1 2006, 02:10 PM FoxBandCutie08 My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about ... Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM |
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