jealous of ex's, is it normal? |
 Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
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is being jealous of your bf/gf's ex(es) normal? why should you feel bad, if they dont care about them anymore? (its different if they do still care, i suppose) what can you do to prevent it?
i can understand why he feels bad when he thinks about me and my ex doing stuff together.. i mean, i was his first kiss but he wasn't mine.. but he gets jealous every time my ex(first boyfriend) is mentioned, even though we dont talk anymore. is there anything i can say to stop him from thinking about it / being jealous about it? i really dont want him to be hurt like this from something that doesnt even exist anymore. |
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Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
ugh, my ex used to be like that. i know what it's like, it's completely ridiculous, he always brought up my ex's and was all you did whatever with them so why not with me?
we always fought about stupid sh*t because of him but he always turned it around and made it my fault. sometimes enough is just enough. tell him that the crap he brings up is in the past and all it does is cause friction between you two. you respect that he may have some insecurites but you two are in the present and if he wants a future then he cannot keep throwing your past in your face. |
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anoniez jealous of ex's Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
anubis it's not a pleasant feeling to him, not to men... Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM anoniez oops.. when i said mentioned, i didnt mean that it... Dec 29 2005, 09:35 PM flaymzofice Like anubis said, it's mostly to do with what ... Dec 29 2005, 09:50 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Right, but think of it this way:
You're prett... Dec 29 2005, 09:58 PM
anubis QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Dec 29 2005, 8:58 ... Dec 29 2005, 10:07 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Whoops. I guess I got a little confused. It's ... Dec 29 2005, 10:11 PM anoniez hahah, its ok; im sure i can turn that around to s... Dec 29 2005, 10:33 PM krnxswat It's okay. I'm kind of in that situation (... Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM silver rain Yeah, I'm in a similar situation but reversed.... Dec 30 2005, 12:51 AM LittleLulu i've never dated any men who've had ex... Dec 30 2005, 05:55 AM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM)
sometimes... Dec 30 2005, 10:47 AM da_SALSA I understand your boyfriend's feelings. I disl... Dec 31 2005, 12:42 AM pinayprincess either the guy is jealous or the girl is jealous [... Jan 1 2006, 11:53 AM Zlatko .... Feb 1 2006, 11:09 AM lilxl0ser maybe he needs some assurance. lols just tell him ... Feb 1 2006, 02:10 PM FoxBandCutie08 My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about ... Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM |
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