jealous of ex's, is it normal? |
 Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
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is being jealous of your bf/gf's ex(es) normal? why should you feel bad, if they dont care about them anymore? (its different if they do still care, i suppose) what can you do to prevent it?
i can understand why he feels bad when he thinks about me and my ex doing stuff together.. i mean, i was his first kiss but he wasn't mine.. but he gets jealous every time my ex(first boyfriend) is mentioned, even though we dont talk anymore. is there anything i can say to stop him from thinking about it / being jealous about it? i really dont want him to be hurt like this from something that doesnt even exist anymore. |
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| *anubis* |
Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM
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it's not a pleasant feeling to him, not to mention awkward.
it reminds him of the fact that, before he got to you, you used to belong to somebody else. and if he really has strong feelings for you, it would make him uncomfortable knowing that you once had feelings for another guy. obviously if he's so bothered by it, don't ever mention your ex boyfriend. EVER. that's like the first rule to the nonexistant "keeping your boyfriend" handbook. NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR EX. guys hate that. "oh my last boyfriend used to.. blah blah blah" whether it's good or bad, they don't want to hear it. oh yeah--and it's normal. why would you ever talk about your ex in front of him anyway? |
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anoniez jealous of ex's Dec 29 2005, 08:59 PM
anoniez oops.. when i said mentioned, i didnt mean that it... Dec 29 2005, 09:35 PM flaymzofice Like anubis said, it's mostly to do with what ... Dec 29 2005, 09:50 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Right, but think of it this way:
You're prett... Dec 29 2005, 09:58 PM
anubis QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Dec 29 2005, 8:58 ... Dec 29 2005, 10:07 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ Whoops. I guess I got a little confused. It's ... Dec 29 2005, 10:11 PM anoniez hahah, its ok; im sure i can turn that around to s... Dec 29 2005, 10:33 PM krnxswat It's okay. I'm kind of in that situation (... Dec 29 2005, 11:25 PM Chii ugh, my ex used to be like that. i know what it... Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM silver rain Yeah, I'm in a similar situation but reversed.... Dec 30 2005, 12:51 AM LittleLulu i've never dated any men who've had ex... Dec 30 2005, 05:55 AM _sarcastic_ QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 29 2005, 11:38 PM)
sometimes... Dec 30 2005, 10:47 AM da_SALSA I understand your boyfriend's feelings. I disl... Dec 31 2005, 12:42 AM pinayprincess either the guy is jealous or the girl is jealous [... Jan 1 2006, 11:53 AM Zlatko .... Feb 1 2006, 11:09 AM lilxl0ser maybe he needs some assurance. lols just tell him ... Feb 1 2006, 02:10 PM FoxBandCutie08 My boyfriend is like that, he likes to joke about ... Feb 1 2006, 05:36 PM |
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