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 Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM
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 facedown  Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 276,252  |
At your school, your not seen as pretty or hott. But when your out in public with guys that you don't know - they honk their horns, say unappropriate things (sex related), stare, smile, etc?
I don't get it at all! What's the difference? --- But sometimes when I get hit on, I feel dirty and like I want to go back to being seen as unpretty...yet I have no clue why. =[ |
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Dec 27 2005, 04:47 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Being ugly and being beautiful isn't black or white--it's a sliding scale. As you get older, your standards decrease because reality crowds out your optimistic naivete. As your standards decrease, more women who would otherwise be below the benchmark are above the benchmark. As more women meet you requirements, you stare at and hit on more women. Not suprisingly, more women are then stared at by you.
People outside high school generlaly have lower standards--so they're probably more likely to think you're pretty if you're on the fence. |
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wishonthestars has this happened to you? Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM
omgah_itsmaggiex pshh, yea. im not considered preppy/ hot or a geek... Dec 27 2005, 12:54 PM HeLlOrIcAnGuRl yes i do. Im seen as a ugly person to guys in scho... Dec 27 2005, 12:56 PM ComradeRed Your standards start decreasing once you leave the... Dec 27 2005, 01:07 PM
instantmusic QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 27 2005, 1:07 PM)Your ... Dec 29 2005, 07:31 PM LiLCUTiEFR0MDAYAY all tha tyme. the only reason people dont do it at... Dec 27 2005, 01:08 PM Trashley QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 27 2005, 4:47 PM)Being... Dec 30 2005, 03:01 PM aznxdreamer yeah. because at school, people have known you for... Dec 27 2005, 04:48 PM _sarcastic_ ugly men would stare at me and wink and all that n... Dec 27 2005, 09:16 PM celticsluvr yeah i get that. mainly cause my schools punk-rock... Dec 27 2005, 09:19 PM jEllyBeaNs QUOTE(celticsluvr @ Dec 27 2005, 10:19 PM)yea... Dec 28 2005, 12:08 AM celticsluvr QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Dec 28 2005, 12:08 AM)^hah... Dec 28 2005, 01:50 AM jEllyBeaNs QUOTE(celticsluvr @ Dec 28 2005, 2:50 AM)ahah... Dec 28 2005, 02:23 PM mzbbc QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Dec 28 2005, 3:23 PM)haha ... Dec 29 2005, 07:15 PM m.ar.i.a nope. good thing i liv in a country (sorta?) Dec 27 2005, 09:28 PM Stephire I think it's all about reputation.
There are g... Dec 27 2005, 09:30 PM skp86 Hmm...well adults say that I'm pretty (I don... Dec 27 2005, 09:39 PM TootsInTraining2 I am the SAME way!
It stinks because in a smal... Dec 27 2005, 11:53 PM Cake. Because you're judged and cliqued at school an... Dec 28 2005, 10:55 AM Babi3xFoOlish its mainly them "mexican ppl", you noe w... Dec 28 2005, 04:39 PM spoon_fork maybe the reason is "you dont look good in sc... Dec 28 2005, 05:06 PM xl0stxThoughtx Yeah, that's happened to me. When I'm in s... Dec 28 2005, 05:21 PM so0o_contagious some guys just hits on anythin that walks, has a j... Dec 29 2005, 07:11 PM sunissed14127 Yeah....I mean some guys like me at school & s... Dec 29 2005, 09:20 PM capricorn826 QUOTE(wishonthestars @ Dec 27 2005, 12:49 PM)... Dec 29 2005, 09:22 PM cLinT_wEStw0oD if a guy whistled at my girl when i was with her i... Dec 29 2005, 09:23 PM innocentwinky YAY . I can answer this one.
My driving instructo... Dec 30 2005, 01:10 AM prepsRule QUOTE(innocentwinky @ Dec 30 2005, 1:10 AM)YA... Dec 30 2005, 01:36 AM flaymzofice Mostly, high school is a small environment, even i... Dec 30 2005, 01:24 AM LittleLulu Like the ppl ubove me have said, i think in highsc... Dec 30 2005, 05:25 AM Hiphop d[-_-]b Happens to everybody. Its cos boys suck. Jan 8 2006, 10:46 PM x0x_jazi that happens heaps.
like people try to pick up me ... Jan 9 2006, 06:56 AM maddi. Heh. Happened to me like once. This guy at the smo... Jan 9 2006, 08:01 AM Smoogrish Yeah.. I feel pretty darn dirty when people outsid... Jan 9 2006, 07:29 PM Evil_One1 Dude, I know what you mean!
Only one guy in m... Jan 10 2006, 08:25 PM FoxBandCutie08 Maybe they act like that because you have a certai... Jan 13 2006, 05:32 PM |
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