How do you tell someone you're gay?, plz help |
 Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM
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I only discovered that I'm gay a few months ago when I really wanted to kiss my best friend, who is a guy. It freaked me out at first but now I'm not bothered.
Anyway, how I'm I supposed to tell people I know? I think that most of my friends would just act like they don't know me but I don't know what my best friend would do. I really want to stay friends but I also have a crush on him (if you seen him you would too, he's just too cute) and if I tell him I'm gay I'll have to tell him I like him too. So how do I tell people, him especially? |
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Dec 26 2005, 07:16 PM
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Dont even say it ... yet. Wait 'till both of you guys built a strong friendship ... he'll understand better ... and will be a bit handy for you to speak out.
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Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Dec 27 2005, 1:16 AM) Dont even say it ... yet. Wait 'till both of you guys built a strong friendship ... he'll understand better ... and will be a bit handy for you to speak out.  We are good friends. I've known him for years! He's the one who just said out of the blue "I really need a wank" That really shocked me cuz he's usually very quiet and shy. I guess he's just comfortable around me. QUOTE So is gambling; are you telling me you've never had friends over for poker? No, I'm 15. QUOTE Have you ever heard of imperfect information? Your friend is latently gay and by raping him he will realize that and thus you will live happily ever after. Thus, you are actually doing him a favor. How is raping him doing him a favor? He could be traumatized for life. QUOTE Oh come, that's a lame excuse. Get in touch with your inner white trash cowboy! I haven't seen that movie or tv show or whatever. |
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Dec 27 2005, 02:04 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM) How is raping him doing him a favor? He could be traumatized for life. OR he might get in touch with his inner homo and you two could live happily ever after. Sometimes, you've got to take a risk. QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM) I haven't seen that movie or tv show or whatever. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0388795/ IMDB gives it a 7.7; it's good... |
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ayu_ku_fan How do you tell someone you're gay? Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM
krnxswat there's no good way. whatever you say or howev... Dec 24 2005, 11:30 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 24 2005, 9:30 AM)there... Dec 24 2005, 01:50 PM
iNyCxShoRT QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 24 2005, 11:30 AM)there... Dec 25 2005, 02:50 PM _sarcastic_ what difference does it make if you say it one way... Dec 24 2005, 05:46 PM mouse_3k "Hi im gay" simple Dec 24 2005, 06:42 PM krnxswat ^
no. not THAT simple. Dec 24 2005, 06:45 PM dahding just be honest. don't be like, "i'm g... Dec 24 2005, 10:44 PM ayu_ku_fan Thanks but how do i tell him? Do I tell him I need... Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM andromeda_90 QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM)Than... Dec 31 2005, 09:49 PM uLoVeMikeRoch QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM)I on... Dec 25 2005, 05:17 PM ComradeRed Rape them during a camping trip like in Brokeback ... Dec 25 2005, 05:51 PM ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 25 2005, 11:51 PM)Rape... Dec 26 2005, 02:41 PM ComradeRed QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)Eh, t... Dec 26 2005, 08:18 PM lil_chubby_cheeks2 QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 26 2005, 5:18 PM)So is... Dec 26 2005, 08:26 PM anubis only tell people if you are truly ready yourself.
... Dec 26 2005, 02:55 PM ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(anubis @ Dec 26 2005, 8:55 PM)only tell... Dec 26 2005, 03:50 PM _suzie_ OK heres what u do.
seeing as u only ''d... Dec 27 2005, 03:48 PM ComradeRed Actually, I'm a guy and if my best friend told... Dec 27 2005, 03:50 PM ayu_ku_fan QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 27 2005, 9:50 PM)Actua... Dec 28 2005, 08:24 AM Ilaem Yeah. My friend, just told me the other day she wa... Dec 27 2005, 03:55 PM Maximum_Tune815 go tell him. "hey.. we've been frds for a... Dec 31 2005, 04:53 AM tcunningham1589 If your friends know you well enough, especially y... Dec 31 2005, 07:00 AM ayu_ku_fan Thanx tcunningham1589, that acctuly helps a lot. Dec 31 2005, 09:57 AM tcunningham1589 You're welcome, I was glad to help. Dec 31 2005, 10:00 AM ayu_ku_fan thanx for all your help guys. I'll tell him wh... Jan 1 2006, 11:42 AM sharpandcuddly Speak your mind because those who mind don't m... Jan 1 2006, 04:24 PM ayu_ku_fan Well I told him.
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... Jan 6 2006, 05:51 PM s_parker_luver well. there's no "good ways" to tell... Jan 6 2006, 06:06 PM |
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