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How do you tell someone you're gay?, plz help
ayu_ku_fan
post Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM
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I only discovered that I'm gay a few months ago when I really wanted to kiss my best friend, who is a guy. It freaked me out at first but now I'm not bothered.

Anyway, how I'm I supposed to tell people I know? I think that most of my friends would just act like they don't know me but I don't know what my best friend would do. I really want to stay friends but I also have a crush on him (if you seen him you would too, he's just too cute) and if I tell him I'm gay I'll have to tell him I like him too. So how do I tell people, him especially?
 
 
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post Dec 25 2005, 05:51 PM
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Rape them during a camping trip like in Brokeback Mountain.
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 02:41 PM
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QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 25 2005, 11:51 PM)
Rape them during a camping trip like in Brokeback Mountain.
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Eh, there are 3 things wrong with that.
1. Rape is illegal
2. I don't want to hurt him
and 3. I'M NOT IN BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN!

Jeez some people just don't understand.

And uLoVeMikeRoch I think that might be the way I have to go about it. Now I just need to work up the nerve to do it, which is a totally different kettle of fish.
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 08:18 PM
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QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)
Eh, there are 3 things wrong with that.
1. Rape is illegal
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So is gambling; are you telling me you've never had friends over for poker?

QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)
2. I don't want to hurt him
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Have you ever heard of imperfect information? Your friend is latently gay and by raping him he will realize that and thus you will live happily ever after. Thus, you are actually doing him a favor.

QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)
and 3. I'M NOT IN BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN!
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Oh come, that's a lame excuse. Get in touch with your inner white trash cowboy!

QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)
Jeez some people just don't understand.
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Yeah... some people like you!
 
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post Dec 26 2005, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 26 2005, 5:18 PM)
So is gambling; are you telling me you've never had friends over for poker?
Have you ever heard of imperfect information? Your friend is latently gay and by raping him he will realize that and thus you will live happily ever after. Thus, you are actually doing him a favor.
Oh come, that's a lame excuse. Get in touch with your inner white trash cowboy!
Yeah... some people like you!
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youre not helping...

but yeahh
i think you should just tell people who you trust the most. theyll be shocked but knowing is better than not knowing.
 

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ayu_ku_fan   How do you tell someone you're gay?   Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM
krnxswat   there's no good way. whatever you say or howev...   Dec 24 2005, 11:30 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 24 2005, 9:30 AM)there...   Dec 24 2005, 01:50 PM
iNyCxShoRT   QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 24 2005, 11:30 AM)there...   Dec 25 2005, 02:50 PM
_sarcastic_   what difference does it make if you say it one way...   Dec 24 2005, 05:46 PM
mouse_3k   "Hi im gay" simple   Dec 24 2005, 06:42 PM
krnxswat   ^ no. not THAT simple.   Dec 24 2005, 06:45 PM
dahding   just be honest. don't be like, "i'm g...   Dec 24 2005, 10:44 PM
ayu_ku_fan   Thanks but how do i tell him? Do I tell him I need...   Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM
andromeda_90   QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM)Than...   Dec 31 2005, 09:49 PM
uLoVeMikeRoch   QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 24 2005, 11:04 AM)I on...   Dec 25 2005, 05:17 PM
ComradeRed   Rape them during a camping trip like in Brokeback ...   Dec 25 2005, 05:51 PM
ayu_ku_fan   QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 25 2005, 11:51 PM)Rape...   Dec 26 2005, 02:41 PM
ComradeRed   QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 26 2005, 2:41 PM)Eh, t...   Dec 26 2005, 08:18 PM
lil_chubby_cheeks2   QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 26 2005, 5:18 PM)So is...   Dec 26 2005, 08:26 PM
anubis   only tell people if you are truly ready yourself. ...   Dec 26 2005, 02:55 PM
ayu_ku_fan   QUOTE(anubis @ Dec 26 2005, 8:55 PM)only tell...   Dec 26 2005, 03:50 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   Dont even say it ... yet. Wait 'till both of y...   Dec 26 2005, 07:16 PM
ayu_ku_fan   QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Dec 27 2005, 1:...   Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM
ComradeRed   QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 27 2005, 12:35 PM)How ...   Dec 27 2005, 02:04 PM
_suzie_   OK heres what u do. seeing as u only ''d...   Dec 27 2005, 03:48 PM
ComradeRed   Actually, I'm a guy and if my best friend told...   Dec 27 2005, 03:50 PM
ayu_ku_fan   QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 27 2005, 9:50 PM)Actua...   Dec 28 2005, 08:24 AM
Ilaem   Yeah. My friend, just told me the other day she wa...   Dec 27 2005, 03:55 PM
Maximum_Tune815   go tell him. "hey.. we've been frds for a...   Dec 31 2005, 04:53 AM
tcunningham1589   If your friends know you well enough, especially y...   Dec 31 2005, 07:00 AM
ayu_ku_fan   Thanx tcunningham1589, that acctuly helps a lot.   Dec 31 2005, 09:57 AM
tcunningham1589   You're welcome, I was glad to help.   Dec 31 2005, 10:00 AM
ayu_ku_fan   thanx for all your help guys. I'll tell him wh...   Jan 1 2006, 11:42 AM
sharpandcuddly   Speak your mind because those who mind don't m...   Jan 1 2006, 04:24 PM
ayu_ku_fan   Well I told him. > > > > > > ...   Jan 6 2006, 05:51 PM
s_parker_luver   well. there's no "good ways" to tell...   Jan 6 2006, 06:06 PM


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