Another thread on guys.. sigh Options

[redpeony]

I feel bad for resorting to an online forum to get advice, but I'm sorta desperate..

My boyfriend is on vacation in Asia. Today, he called me and we chatted for a while and it was all good. Then out of nowhere, he says,

"I'm so thankful I'm dating a Canadian girl... a few days ago me and my friends went out and I bought this girl a drink because she was my friend's friend.. and just because I bought her that one drink she wouldn't let go of my hand for the whole night. I was like 'uh.. wanna let go of my hand?' It was so annoying!"

And now I'm thinking.. okay? Why did you tell me this? What is he implying? Should I put up with this crap that he seems to be throwing at me? Arrrrgh I'm thinking that either he wants to make himself look better by implying that girls want him, or that he's being partially honest so he can do things and get away with them. Either way.. I don't like it!

Heeeeeeeelp.. what do you think he's trying to say?

[KissMe2408]

Don't feel bad about asking this question on the internet, it's all good =)

Hm, well I think your boyfriend really misses you, he's probably just as worried that you are going to find someone else at home. He's probably trying to be honest about the situation, make you a tad bit jealous to be sure you still care, and maybe kinda putting himself in the "good guy" scenerio. I think it's a mixture of all 3 of those. Either way, just kinda brush it off for now, we all have those moments. However, if it happens again, just kinda tell him that you'd rather not have him talk about that stuff with you. I can understand why that would bother you, It would def bother me. I hope things work out, and don't worry, he won't be on vacation forever =)