Ugh...Season of Disaster, Me, a girl...and another guy.=/ Options

[jrdrehey]

[FONT=Geneva]Ok so here ill tell you the backstory first. Ok me and this girl named Sarah, met in the 7th grade, but Ive only gotten closer to her during the summer of 8th grade year. Ok, we first started talking through AIM, and stuff like that, and like a couple of weeks later, she gave me her phone number, and so I started talking to her over the phone. At this point, im already falling for her. So, I start talking to her like everyday from then on, and finally on one day, she invites me to go to her "Mixer," a dance in which all schools around the area can attend to, on a friday. At first I was about to ask her to go to the movies with me, a date to say the least, since its been 3 months since Ive last seen her, but in the end I decided to accept the invitation to the mixer. SOOO...friday rolls along and its the day of the dance, and so I call her to make sure all the plans are all set up to meet each other. I prepare myself with a new dress shirt and all that other shit, and finally go off to the dance. When I arrived, at first I was stunned because of all the people that were there. Secondly, I was stunned because when I saw her, I was amazed, partly because she looked so beautiful, to tell you the truth my whole body was numb. Ok moving on, the danced continued, and the plan for the night was to slow dance with her. Ok remember that I know no one at the dance, so I was a complete stranger. So the last song goes on, and I get up to go ask her, then this dude comes out of nowhere and starts to slow dance with her. I stood there in the middle of the dancefloor, dumbfounded. I turn around and go back to the bench. So, heres the twist. In the same day, she promises that she wouldnt ditch me at the dance, and atop of that she even promised to dance with me the whole night, but she didnt. So after the dance I go home, like hella depressed and shit. Ok now a time flash to now. For our skool, our winterball was like last saturday. So i asked her if she wanted to go to winterball with me a couple of weeks before, and she said yes, but ONLY if her mom would let her go to our winterball, because the SAME guy that danced with her at the mixer asked her to go winterball with him as well. So like 2 weeks ago, she leaves a message on myspace saying that she couldnt go with me to our winterball, and instead shes going with that other guy. So, saturday comes along, and shes at her winterball. On tuesday of this week, I then find out the guy asked her out......and she said yes. AND sooooooooooooo...im stuck here....depressed partly because knowing that I was *THIS* close to having her. And now i dont know wut to do......and so i think i needed advice.

So wut shud i do?
1. move on
2. fight for her
3. be patient and wait for her to come to me.

iono its ur choice....

[jrdrehey]

ok....its been like a week or two...and sooo much has happened...

ok like the last post i had...its the same girl. Ok backstory:on Wednsday she calls me up, like around 3 am in the morning, and all i hear is her crying. At first im like,"ok...wtf?", but then i find out that her bf was supposedly cheating on her, and so she broke up with him. Ok moving on, me and her then talk for the next 3 hours on the fone finally ending the call at around 6 am. The convo was rather drama filled partly because she was crying for the most part of it. We talked about everything during that convo, and at the end she told me to meet her up at the park after school on friday. Just keep in mind that she doesnt go to the same school as me. Ok so friday comes along, and school has finally ended. So i tell my mom to drop me off at the park she told me to meet up at. I walk around for a while, then i see her on the bench, with an umbrella in hand, for it was raining in the area. So, i slowly walk to her, and she notices me and gives off a big smile. I smile back, but inside i gave off a fake smile, because i was still mad at her for all the things she done. I sit down right next to her, and we start talking. It was awkward at first, but later into the convo, it started getting relaxed. So we talked and talked, which seemed like forever, and then finally at the end, she tells me to go walk with her around the park, and so i agreed. We then walked all around the park, and as our last destination we go to the amphitheatre. I then, stupidly, realize that this was the same place in which our (rainy) 8th grade graduation took place. I laughed inside, from realizing the fact. I look all around the theatre, then i notice a warm hand grabbing my hand. I didnt need to look over to see, but i knew it was her. Just looking around the whole theatre brought back the good memories i had in the 8th grade, and i swore that she too was getting teary-eyed. And so, like instinct, i turn around and ask her to go with me. At first her eyes were that of shock, but then she gave off a smile. Without no words we stood on the theatre, just holding each other and looking around for memories from the past.

it was great, even tho after all the things she had done, i knew i had to ask her. i couldnt let an oppurtunity like this slip. i had to take it.

to make it clear, i didnt want to make this post a very conceited post, but i posted this because of the amazing amount of replys i got from the other post.

well anyways u guys are informed now lol...

oh yea...thanks for all the advice u guys gave!