some advice puhlease? ):, boyfriend troubles Options

[sharpandcuddly]

Okay, here's the deal. I've been with a guy for about 11 months, which is such a record for me, and he's super sweet and everything, but wayyy too clingy. It's nice having someone to want you, but I've been noticing a lot of other guys now, and i've been noticing them noticing me too... I'm afraid of hurting this boy, but my interests are changing, and he seems like the type who would die if I left.
What do I do?

[Chii]

i'm sorry but 11 months is not that long. if you get married, 11 months is nothing.

if you think he's too clingy then tell him that he's too clingy. you're not being very fair to him, leaving him in the dark about things like this

[Tribal J_Rome]

i'm sorry but 11 months is not that long. if you get married, 11 months is nothing.

if you think he's too clingy then tell him that he's too clingy. you're not being very fair to him, leaving him in the dark about things like this

ur right about the telling him the truth part, but a teenage relationship isn't the same thing as marriage, they are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy different. and so is 11 months in either one.

but yah.....if u still love the guy, you shouldn't leave him just cuz ur attracted to some other guys. he might have/probably been attracted to other girls, but he's still with u. you should try talking to him first.

[Chii]

ur right about the telling him the truth part, but a teenage relationship isn't the same thing as marriage, they are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy different. and so is 11 months in either one.

but yah.....if u still love the guy, you shouldn't leave him just cuz ur attracted to some other guys. he might have/probably been attracted to other girls, but he's still with u. you should try talking to him first.

well, in case you're unaware, a relationship can turn into marriage and that's the real point of dating. not to just d**k around or to just have fun.

if you're going to be like "hmm it's been 11 months, i kind of want someone else but let me stick with this person because after all it's 11 months." then it turns into a year, then 3 years. you still love this person i suppose but your mind and heart want to wander elsewhere and see the world but hey, 3 years is a long time. then boom it's 5 years and since it's 5 years you should take the next step and get married. another year passes and you have a baby. then like 40 years pass and you have nothing to tell your grandchildren because you've been stuck with that person. then you wish you could have seen what it would have been like with those other people you wanted to be with but nope, you're stuck because of those 11 months. good work