how do you convince someone that, you were not trying to break them up? |
 Dec 15 2005, 05:50 PM
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ok, problem, short and sweet, got a friend and his girlfriend. me and her were talking, she asked me to do something, i was talking to him about it for her, and things just got really messy somewhere in there. anyway, one of them (her) thought that i was trying to break them up and is really mad at me and wont talk to me. And i really dont want her angry at me because we are really good friends. how do i convince her that i wasn't trying to break her and her bf up? (truthfully, i wasn't)
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Dec 17 2005, 04:26 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Give her time for everything to settle down. Most likely, she'll not be mad at you and won't feel like she needs to ignore you. Give it half a week, minimum. Then go up to her and ask if you can talk to her alone. Don't suddenly jump into defending yourself. Just apologize and say something like..
"I'm sorry if it made it seem like I was trying to break you and your boyfriend up. I know I'm not that good with words. I really hope you can forgive me and be friends with me again. Please?" If she were to say "NO!" to your face, maybe she's not really worth being your friend. But you could always try again. Just don't seem desperate and give it a rest after each time you talk with her. |
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upf147 how do you convince someone that Dec 15 2005, 05:50 PM
_sarcastic_ tell her and explain to her what was going on Dec 15 2005, 05:59 PM silver rain Yeah, just talk to her and explain that you weren... Dec 15 2005, 06:41 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b ^ Yes. Explain it. Dont leave out any details. Dec 15 2005, 07:03 PM upf147 ok, ill try to talk to her on the way to fourth mo... Dec 15 2005, 08:58 PM iNyCxShoRT I say; try to work things out. Tell her the truth,... Dec 15 2005, 09:58 PM mipadi Just have a sit-down chat and talk to her. Dec 15 2005, 10:53 PM upf147 problem one, we dont have much time around each ot... Dec 16 2005, 05:15 PM ceci439 Ask her to sit and listen.
Just ask her to listen ... Dec 16 2005, 11:01 PM upf147 yea, thats what i was looking for, nice wording, i... Dec 18 2005, 07:46 PM
Babi3xFoOlish just tell her that yesh u understand from her pers... Dec 19 2005, 07:41 PM |
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