Ugh...Season of Disaster, Me, a girl...and another guy.=/ Options

[jrdrehey]

[FONT=Geneva]Ok so here ill tell you the backstory first. Ok me and this girl named Sarah, met in the 7th grade, but Ive only gotten closer to her during the summer of 8th grade year. Ok, we first started talking through AIM, and stuff like that, and like a couple of weeks later, she gave me her phone number, and so I started talking to her over the phone. At this point, im already falling for her. So, I start talking to her like everyday from then on, and finally on one day, she invites me to go to her "Mixer," a dance in which all schools around the area can attend to, on a friday. At first I was about to ask her to go to the movies with me, a date to say the least, since its been 3 months since Ive last seen her, but in the end I decided to accept the invitation to the mixer. SOOO...friday rolls along and its the day of the dance, and so I call her to make sure all the plans are all set up to meet each other. I prepare myself with a new dress shirt and all that other shit, and finally go off to the dance. When I arrived, at first I was stunned because of all the people that were there. Secondly, I was stunned because when I saw her, I was amazed, partly because she looked so beautiful, to tell you the truth my whole body was numb. Ok moving on, the danced continued, and the plan for the night was to slow dance with her. Ok remember that I know no one at the dance, so I was a complete stranger. So the last song goes on, and I get up to go ask her, then this dude comes out of nowhere and starts to slow dance with her. I stood there in the middle of the dancefloor, dumbfounded. I turn around and go back to the bench. So, heres the twist. In the same day, she promises that she wouldnt ditch me at the dance, and atop of that she even promised to dance with me the whole night, but she didnt. So after the dance I go home, like hella depressed and shit. Ok now a time flash to now. For our skool, our winterball was like last saturday. So i asked her if she wanted to go to winterball with me a couple of weeks before, and she said yes, but ONLY if her mom would let her go to our winterball, because the SAME guy that danced with her at the mixer asked her to go winterball with him as well. So like 2 weeks ago, she leaves a message on myspace saying that she couldnt go with me to our winterball, and instead shes going with that other guy. So, saturday comes along, and shes at her winterball. On tuesday of this week, I then find out the guy asked her out......and she said yes. AND sooooooooooooo...im stuck here....depressed partly because knowing that I was *THIS* close to having her. And now i dont know wut to do......and so i think i needed advice.

So wut shud i do?
1. move on
2. fight for her
3. be patient and wait for her to come to me.

iono its ur choice....

[seremela_culnamo]

sorry to say this, but i agree with everyone else. move on. she showed some interest in you at first, at least from what i read, but then she decides to go out with some other dude without talking to you about it at first. instead, she just ditches you at the dance and doesn't apologize for anything. & even if she does come to you in the end, would you really want to be with her? despite the fact that even if she goes to you, she might ditch you again. she shouldnt have your respect when she was the one who ruined everything in the first place. she should actually be ashamed and feel guilty. after all, you two were friends in the first place.