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post Nov 2 2005, 08:18 PM
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ermm.gif Ok I need help on keeping a relashon ship going like more intrsting. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for alomost a month now and im getting bored? I dont want to dump him becuse hes a nice person and I want this to work out you know what I mean?

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post Dec 14 2005, 09:17 PM
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honey, I've been in this situation SO many times. Do you just not like hm anymore? it's okay if that's the case. Are you not having fun because of him, or because of the boring stuff the two of you are doing? Because, even if he really really likes you, but you don't like him back, you should probably tell him that you're better off as friends. Its hard, I know. I HATE hurting people's feelings. But it's better than leading him on, right? If he found out later that you've felt this way, he might be even more hurt.

So pull him aside, tell him you need to have a talk, and gently tell him that you don't like him as much as he likes you.
And then maybe take a break from dating until you figure out what you're looking for in a guy, and then give it a try when anothre nice, interesting, hilarious guy comes along.

Practice makes perfect! :)
 

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oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   I kinda need help...   Nov 2 2005, 08:18 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   I know its not long but you know.   Nov 2 2005, 08:23 PM
HybridCountdown5   QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Nov 2 2005, 9:23 PM...   Dec 27 2005, 01:02 AM
andromeda_90   wait what? if you don't like him as much...du...   Nov 2 2005, 08:25 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   o0o0o but see he likes me .. alot. I mean a lot. =...   Nov 2 2005, 08:27 PM
andromeda_90   QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Nov 2 2005, 8:27 PM...   Nov 2 2005, 09:48 PM
suddenly she   why don't you do something interesting? it doe...   Nov 2 2005, 08:30 PM
oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo   true thanks.   Nov 2 2005, 08:32 PM
Cake.   Go out on a date :) Something romantic. Talk on t...   Nov 2 2005, 08:32 PM
KissMe2408   Sorry this belongs in Relationships! -MOVED T...   Nov 2 2005, 08:33 PM
Solipsist   *SIGGGGGHHHHH* Have sex. - Solipsist   Nov 2 2005, 08:36 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   QUOTE(Solipsist @ Nov 2 2005, 6:36 PM)*SIGGGG...   Nov 5 2005, 05:43 PM
jooleeah   ^ Go on dates and stuff :D That should be fun.   Nov 2 2005, 08:37 PM
mouse_3k   Well easy...do stuff with him. kiss, hold hands, m...   Nov 2 2005, 08:56 PM
aera   well, if you havent done anything since youve gone...   Nov 2 2005, 09:24 PM
Rachel is love   ^Dear god, have you even had sex woman? And brea...   Nov 2 2005, 09:53 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Nov 2 2005, 9:53 PM)An...   Nov 3 2005, 11:16 AM
c4rL4   talk to him about it.. =]   Nov 2 2005, 09:57 PM
_sarcastic_   if you're getting bored than you are slowly lo...   Nov 3 2005, 04:06 PM
miss-_-guitar   you should break up with him. just because he like...   Nov 5 2005, 04:58 PM
thriftstoresecrets   honey, I've been in this situation SO many tim...   Dec 14 2005, 09:17 PM
pinayprincess   tell him you want a lil action lol   Dec 14 2005, 09:21 PM
Babi3xFoOlish   why dont you just try doing stuff with him. i kno...   Dec 19 2005, 07:50 PM


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