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So confuuuuuused..., What to do?
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post Dec 9 2005, 04:16 PM
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Me and this guy have been friends for a long time and I've known him for about 3 years. We hang out pretty much every weekend (and talk to each other every day at school). All of my friends know I like him and they say he likes me back. So I ask him and he replies:

"Well, I can't really tell you that because I don't want a girlfriend right now. Because when people break up things get awkward and it could ruin a friendship."

So I said, "Okay then. We can be friends for now."

And he says, "For now."

I've been thinking about it and he hasn't directly said he likes me back, so I don't want to get all caught up in something that may not even exist. I asked him the other day to give me a yes or no answer of whether or not he liked me and he just shrugged and changed the subject. I told him earlier that if you really liked someone you wouldn't be embarrassed to say so and he agreed. He's had several girlfriends in the past so it's not like he's not ready. I'm just so confused. Heelpp.
 
 
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seremela_culnamo
post Dec 12 2005, 11:08 PM
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Sigh* I wish I can help you myself. But I'm also going through the similiar situation. Well not the same same, but he said, "I don't want these feelings to ruin our friendship".

Meh. I suggest waiting for a bit? That's what I'm doing. Probably he has stuff that makes him not go out with you for now. So yea. If he says "for now", hes probably just thinking about it or something.

Not making much sense, am I? ><
 

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