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Conversations, how to make a good one??? HELP!!
doom_diver
post Dec 12 2005, 08:19 AM
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Well, I am kinda problematic but leave those aside because I can handle it myself. However, the problem that I have is with conversations. First, I don't seem to have the courage to start convos on MSN with my classmates, I have this feeling that they dont wanna talk to me and will use the 'brb' to disc me. Afterwards, even if I manage to start one, I dont know what to talk about. The model convo for me is :

Me: Hey!
Classmate: Hi
Me: Wassup?
Classmate: nm
Me: same here
Classmate: ............
Me: (Damn what should I say)

Usually after that the convo dies and loses the momentum.

Summary:

How to start convo
How to get convo going
What to talk about

Any help appreciated for all those things!!!
 
 
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Chii
post Dec 12 2005, 11:53 AM
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it's not that hard to have a conversation.

you: hi, how are you, anything interesting happen this past weekend?
classmate/person/guy/girl/whatever: fine, nope
you: aww, maybe we can hang out next weekend and try to make up for it.
or if they're like "yeah something great happened"
you: what happened?
classmate/person/guy/girl/whatever: *tells you*
then you go from there and share experiences

talk about your interests, things you like and dislike, debate things, teachers, schoolwork, tests, etc.

i'm sure that you can rearrange my introduction/conversation thing to make it sound cooler or something.
 

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