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 Nov 22 2005, 06:03 PM
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 november 25th,, <3  Group: Member Posts: 473 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,226  |
well see, my boyfriend & i seem to have a perfect relationship its scarry. if i do something wrong, hes never ever mad at me but shouldnt i be happy that we`re so great? but i know nothings perfect and im scared somethings going to happen thats bad. is that just me being paranoid?
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Dec 11 2005, 02:24 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You know, healthy relationships always has some arguing and fights involved. Also, there should be emotional stuff.
It could be that he's bottling up his anger? I mean, there were times where it seemed like my boyfriend would drop things and not be angry, but then later it kinda blew up. I remember him yelling at me and I was reallllly depressed. Or if he's toooo easy going and lets things go, it might mean that he's too focused on having everything perfect that he doesn't realize that relationships need arguming because it will make the bond stronger. It's nice to have an easy-going guy, but then what if you really want his input? I know I got reallllly irritated when my boyfriend doesn't argue back or try to defend himself. Like I said, fighting/arguments have the potential to create a better relationship. That way, both of you can figure out the rights and wrongs, so that next time, you'll be able to do things better. :] Love is about acceptance, but not to the point where it might slip to carelessness. Do you get my point? The kinder he is, it's going to hurt 1000x more when he actually DOES get angry. It's because you won't be prepared for the controversy, thus causing you to potentially have a nervous breakdown. I know I did.. 
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__Nessa perfect that its.. Nov 22 2005, 06:03 PM
c0cONuTTeR I don't know, try not to do things that might ... Nov 22 2005, 06:04 PM
__Nessa QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 22 2005, 6:04 PM)I don... Nov 22 2005, 06:10 PM lit0chinagirl i use to feel like that
i don't mean to kill y... Nov 22 2005, 06:40 PM Shortiiex it seems like he trusts you
you're afraid to l... Nov 22 2005, 06:44 PM yourfriendsteph i think you should just enjoy the moment while you... Nov 22 2005, 07:14 PM silver rain Yeah, just enjoy it and try not to take advantage ... Nov 22 2005, 07:46 PM mzbbc that's so sweet don't even worry about it.... Nov 22 2005, 09:29 PM incoherent just let it flow.
a lot of people are self consci... Nov 22 2005, 09:46 PM liquidize nah, hes probalby getting annoyed but is holding i... Nov 22 2005, 10:07 PM MyVermilionPlague I'm not sure how to answer your question, but ... Nov 22 2005, 10:46 PM NyCaZnShOrtAii maybe its because u have everything like perfect a... Nov 22 2005, 11:26 PM _sarcastic_ don't take advantage of that, be happy that yo... Nov 23 2005, 06:27 AM Nicolatofu No problems doesn't really mean that the relat... Nov 23 2005, 08:44 AM __Nessa thankkk youu <3 Nov 23 2005, 03:42 PM andromeda_90 Yup you're being paranoid. Just relax and have... Nov 23 2005, 03:52 PM lilxl0ser QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 23 2005, 3:52 PM)Yup... Nov 23 2005, 05:45 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 23 2005, 5:45 PM)was go... Nov 23 2005, 06:34 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 this is called having doubts. you should really st... Nov 23 2005, 06:38 PM iNyCxShoRT Don't think so negative. You have to be positi... Nov 23 2005, 07:05 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 whoa whoa u cant spoil ur boyfriend are u nuts, th... Nov 24 2005, 12:46 AM SimplicityGirl ^totally agree
Doubting him...could lead to a bre... Nov 24 2005, 12:46 AM hottiebheibi hmmnnn... why do you want him to get angry @ you??... Nov 24 2005, 09:27 AM sheddingtears just be grateful that you're not crying your e... Dec 11 2005, 02:07 AM pastellove_ my relationship is like that.
he's very tolera... Dec 11 2005, 02:25 AM |
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