What have you learned..., from your past relationships? |
 Oct 4 2005, 06:40 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl.  Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888  |
I just wanted to know what has everyone learned from your past relationships with boyfriends, and girlfriends. Engagement, Marriage, Couples...
What have you really learned in life from the past relationships? I've learned, from my past relationships about Trust, Caring for one another, love, and life. I'm writing a paper on this...please help me out. =) |
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Dec 10 2005, 10:32 PM
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 Oh the insanity! Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,302 |
1. All the things that people say about not talking about important or serious issues are bullshit. The right guy will want you to talk about what matters to you.
2. If you want to be clingy, then by all means be clingy, so long as you don't go totally stupid and actually think about his feelings too. Would you want someone constantly poking you if you were exhausted and only wanted to sleep? 3. Have the same or similar goals. I don't mean 'I want to get a car'. I mean the important things like 'One day I want to settle down out in the country and grow most of my own food and maybe have kids if I can afford it.' 4. If he ever takes his feelings out on you by hitting you, even if its not hard and even if its in jest, don't put up with it. 5. If someone wants to mess around with you before deciding whether or not they want a relationship with you, don't. They probably don't want you and it's not worth it. 6. Just because they want to mess around with you doesn't mean that they will want a relationship. In fact, they almost certainly won't. 7. Don't settle for someone who doesn't feel the same way you do. 8. If they worry that they're not affectionate enough when they're always giving you flowers and holding your hand and kissing you and really, really love you, it may be a good sign. 9. Guys will tell you they love you once and then think that you'll always remember it. 10. If they say they love you but they aren't in love with you and you're in a relationship with them, slap them and tell them to eff off. That comment can be freely translated as 'I have no intention of being in a long term relationship with you because I don't actually care about you but I want sex so I'll tell you I love you and then qualify it and maybe it'll fool them into thinking they have a chance.' 11. You can't change someones feelings. 12. Real love is worth waiting for and if you have bad things happen to you, it's not the end. |
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captured_serenity What have you learned... Oct 4 2005, 06:40 PM
stephinika not to get too serious too fast
not to throw aroun... Oct 4 2005, 06:45 PM
lilxl0ser QUOTE(stephinika @ Oct 4 2005, 6:45 PM)not to... Dec 4 2005, 03:53 PM SimplicityGirl Don't be clingy. This applies to both girls an... Oct 4 2005, 06:54 PM yummy_delight I've learned:
+ High school romances are not ... Oct 4 2005, 07:06 PM Nicolatofu There's no such thing as 'in the moment... Oct 4 2005, 07:10 PM FREEcandies Wow...that is such an open question. Where does o... Oct 4 2005, 07:26 PM silver rain - Communication is definitely important.
- Learn t... Oct 4 2005, 07:33 PM brandon32490 (1)Personality matters more importantly then looks... Oct 4 2005, 07:53 PM lexaa621 don't kiss up
don't be clingy
try not to g... Oct 4 2005, 08:36 PM angel_revelation it's hard to explain... but i've learned ... Oct 4 2005, 09:21 PM sadolakced acid relationships suck. Oct 4 2005, 09:24 PM Kristinaa QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Oct 4 2005, 9:24 PM)r... Oct 5 2005, 07:29 PM sadolakced acid QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 5 2005, 7:29 PM)Amen to... Oct 5 2005, 07:41 PM Kristinaa QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Oct 5 2005, 7:41 PM)y... Oct 5 2005, 07:45 PM KissMe2408 oh gosh, i've learned alot....
(1)Be sure tha... Oct 4 2005, 09:41 PM jennypie There must be more than the initial physical attra... Oct 4 2005, 09:46 PM cfaye3char trust is a big thing for me. how to trust people a... Oct 4 2005, 10:04 PM captured_serenity Thank you everyone for your honest opinions! =... Oct 5 2005, 09:14 AM mouse_3k -Never become to attached
-What doesnt kill you ma... Oct 5 2005, 10:29 AM hammers and hearts ive learned that long distance relationships wont ... Oct 5 2005, 12:23 PM OhXiet_ItzDonnA What I learn was to listen to my friends next time... Oct 5 2005, 05:01 PM EmmalieV dont fall to fast
take it easy
get to know them fo... Oct 5 2005, 06:11 PM _sarcastic_ if you're going to move away, don't turn y... Oct 5 2005, 06:12 PM eunie03 Honesty is a road less traveled. Oct 5 2005, 06:15 PM mzkandi Trust my female intuition. Oct 5 2005, 06:22 PM Chii ¤ at the first sign or at most second sign of abus... Oct 5 2005, 06:43 PM insomniac sigh..ive had one boyfriend. 5 years ago...when i ... Oct 5 2005, 07:29 PM yuna* - Don't exactly split out all your feelings to... Oct 5 2005, 08:00 PM jooleeah Middle school relationships are moronic.
Being too... Oct 5 2005, 10:20 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b Never give your heart wholely to them.
I still hav... Oct 5 2005, 10:51 PM sadolakced acid QUOTE(yuna* @ Oct 5 2005, 8:00 PM)- Don't... Oct 5 2005, 11:57 PM pastellove_ ive learned a lot.
and most of them repeat the one... Oct 6 2005, 12:11 AM jessielau623 don't fall in love easily.
but i guess you ca... Oct 6 2005, 09:46 AM celticsluvr trust is key; the guy should never be afraid to ki... Oct 6 2005, 10:39 PM lit0chinagirl i don't know if you're still writing that ... Oct 8 2005, 02:24 PM teeners__15 QUOTE(lit0chinagirl @ Oct 8 2005, 2:24 PM)i d... Dec 3 2005, 05:43 AM sheepy oh i learned a lot.
-don't base relationship... Oct 9 2005, 07:57 PM ChasingLife87 guys aren't worth it. Men, maybe, but guys, no... Oct 9 2005, 11:50 PM Gypsy Eyes - Sometime's it's just better to be yourse... Oct 10 2005, 12:46 AM Latina Babii I learned not to fall to deep.
Ok maybe not the h... Oct 10 2005, 02:54 PM jennypie WHEN IT DOUBT, TALK IT OUT Oct 10 2005, 11:13 PM K!$$ ^ AMEN.
QUOTE(ChasingLife87 @ Oct 10 2005, ... Oct 11 2005, 04:27 AM Fabio. QUOTE(K!$$ @ Oct 11 2005, 4:27 ... Oct 11 2005, 08:19 PM mwahxd i learned not to say u love a person so fast, i le... Oct 12 2005, 11:45 PM sadolakced acid the faster you fall, the hotter it gets, and the h... Oct 13 2005, 12:25 AM xbby_charmz ME what I learned was that I shouldnt get in a rel... Oct 13 2005, 12:27 AM ichiban actually THINK before you get into the relationshi... Oct 13 2005, 12:28 AM xbby_charmz QUOTEactually THINK before you get into the relati... Oct 13 2005, 12:36 AM broken_lance dont give your 100% and leave something for your s... Oct 13 2005, 07:02 AM Fabio. Every time you are in a relationship with someone,... Oct 13 2005, 12:49 PM iNyCxShoRT When telling your boyfriend something, be as strai... Oct 13 2005, 01:24 PM sadolakced acid self pity is really unattractive. Oct 15 2005, 12:07 AM sadolakced acid self pity is really unattractive. Oct 15 2005, 12:07 AM Kounouri my personal rules for dating
. get to know the bo... Oct 15 2005, 05:39 PM captured_serenity Thanks for all the information, it's true havi... Dec 1 2005, 07:16 PM x0x_jazi umm ok lets see..
to not let anyone rush you into ... Dec 1 2005, 08:49 PM Rachel is love QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Oct 5 2005, 10:57 PM)... Dec 1 2005, 10:26 PM silver rain QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 1 2005, 10:26 PM)-... Dec 10 2005, 04:33 PM jennypie You need to give in order to recieve! Dec 1 2005, 10:47 PM gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(jennypie @ Dec 1 2005, 11:47 PM)You nee... Dec 2 2005, 04:45 PM alduhkneel never engage in a "friends with benefits... Dec 2 2005, 04:57 PM sadolakced acid QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Dec 1 2005, 9:26 PM)Ke... Dec 2 2005, 06:35 PM racoons > you - a white lie used carefully is not a bad thing
- ... Dec 2 2005, 07:40 PM vash1530 dont get attached cuz sumthins gonna screw up ur r... Dec 2 2005, 11:35 PM Levy2k6 -things can end for no good reason but in the long... Dec 2 2005, 11:58 PM mzbbc what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Dec 3 2005, 12:44 AM teeblue I went out with my ex for 3 years. Yeah her defini... Dec 3 2005, 05:51 AM Endless_Symphony Well, I've learned that before high school rom... Dec 3 2005, 05:24 PM Rachel is love ^I don't think they are a total waste of time ... Dec 4 2005, 10:37 AM lilliannnn That guys will do physical things with you to make... Dec 4 2005, 12:14 PM miss-_-guitar 1)what goes around come around, i caught my first ... Dec 4 2005, 01:00 PM yourfriendsteph The biggest thing I've learned is to not get a... Dec 4 2005, 04:00 PM xo maerissa -dont try to impress the guy by being able to let ... Dec 7 2005, 12:00 AM LoST SouL love does not last Dec 7 2005, 12:01 AM LiLCUTiEFR0MDAYAY QUOTE(LoST SouL @ Dec 6 2005, 9:01 PM)love do... Dec 10 2005, 12:33 PM LiLCUTiEFR0MDAYAY this is my first boyfriend. sum1 wanted to be my b... Dec 10 2005, 12:31 PM CrazayChristian 1) Don't talk to her everyday
2)look her in t... Dec 10 2005, 04:14 PM sheddingtears don't think about them too much,
it'll jus... Dec 10 2005, 08:17 PM andromeda_90 1.) Never allow yourself to let the guy you like t... Dec 10 2005, 08:22 PM mipadi Don't worry. Just be happy with the present. Dec 13 2005, 12:44 AM jennypie DON'T OVERANALYZE EVERYTHING! Just let it ... Dec 13 2005, 10:47 PM Just_Dream Don't be gullible and believe every little thi... Dec 13 2005, 10:55 PM dreamii Never try to block out your real feelings, you wil... Dec 14 2005, 10:46 PM iNyCxShoRT Never leave the one you love for the one you like. Dec 15 2005, 09:59 PM middleschool13 i've learned not to trust guys ever again
... Dec 15 2005, 10:10 PM jennypie I'm bumping this.
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