how do you vent?, after the lost of a loved on |
 Dec 4 2005, 02:53 PM
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so how do you vent, mourn, that sort of thing, after you lost a loved one,
do you get over it? do you just put it back in your head? what did you do? |
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Dec 6 2005, 10:10 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
Well, I've only lost one person that was really close to me - my nanny. She died a little more than two years ago (I can't believe it).
On the day of the funeral, I only got tears in my eyes. I don't know why I didn't cry, but I think it was because I was still in shock, still leftover from the day I got the news - I couldn't believe that she was really gone. She was supposed to be here, arms wide open, smiling and spreading joy to everyone around her... Whenever I visit her grave I still get those tears in my eyes. Sometimes I'll think about it and I still can't believe she's gone. What I did to mourn - I cried in the days afterwards. I would talk to her in my mind, apologizing for all of the lost moments I could've spent with her (I was kind of distant in the last few years that she was alive). However, I didn't let it bring me down. Life goes on, you know? I'm sure your loved one wouldn't want to see you suffering because of them. "Better by far you should forget and smile Than that you should remember and be sad." |
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