how do you vent?, after the lost of a loved on Options

[lidoaznboi89]

so how do you vent, mourn, that sort of thing, after you lost a loved one,
do you get over it? do you just put it back in your head? what did you do?

[Just_Dream]

Cry. I know it's painful, but letting out the pain will help. Slowly, you'll learn to let go, but never forget.

I know when I was little, I lost a family friend and he was old (like in his late 90's) and his wife cried. My mother comforted her. It hurt me so much because the husband, who died, was so kind and loving. I miss him. I miss his wife, who used to bake delicious cookies for me and when I saw her cry, I learned that her husband had died the night before. It hurt me so much knowing that I'd never see him again.. I cried, A LOT.

This happened when I was little and when I cried that day, I slowly started to feel at ease, knowing that it couldn't be changed and all people die. Sheesh, I think I was 4 years old at that time. :/

It's back in my head, yes, but I think about it from time to time. :/