What have you learned..., from your past relationships? |
 Oct 4 2005, 06:40 PM
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I just wanted to know what has everyone learned from your past relationships with boyfriends, and girlfriends. Engagement, Marriage, Couples...
What have you really learned in life from the past relationships? I've learned, from my past relationships about Trust, Caring for one another, love, and life. I'm writing a paper on this...please help me out. =) |
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Oct 8 2005, 02:24 PM
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i don't know if you're still writing that paper but here's what i've learned:
-high school relationships are overrated- i'm waiting until the end of my senior year [i'm currently a sophomore] to try again. one is enough for me we expect them to last for a long time but when it comes down to it, we end up breaking things before within a matter of months. in a way, we kid ourselves into "that fairy tale ending" but for some, it actually does come true. others- we grow restless -communication is key -sometimes our busy lifestyles dont allow us to stay in a relationship -don't let yourself go to quickly. you may love the person but you shouldn't allow them to get too touchy -don't be afraid to trust them -dont be afraid to speak your mind, if something bugs you about the one you're with, make an effort to point it out. don't be afraid to yell at them a little. -don't be so quick to say i love you and never question yourself about whether or not you love them. and mostly if it was meant to be, let it go and if it comes back to you, then it was always yours (yeah, it's cliche) -"breaks" can give you a lot of time to re-validate yourself |
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Dec 3 2005, 05:43 AM
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QUOTE(lit0chinagirl @ Oct 8 2005, 2:24 PM) i don't know if you're still writing that paper but here's what i've learned: -high school relationships are overrated- i'm waiting until the end of my senior year [i'm currently a sophomore] to try again. one is enough for me we expect them to last for a long time but when it comes down to it, we end up breaking things before within a matter of months. in a way, we kid ourselves into "that fairy tale ending" but for some, it actually does come true. others- we grow restless -communication is key -sometimes our busy lifestyles dont allow us to stay in a relationship -don't let yourself go to quickly. you may love the person but you shouldn't allow them to get too touchy -don't be afraid to trust them -dont be afraid to speak your mind, if something bugs you about the one you're with, make an effort to point it out. don't be afraid to yell at them a little. -don't be so quick to say i love you and never question yourself about whether or not you love them. and mostly if it was meant to be, let it go and if it comes back to you, then it was always yours (yeah, it's cliche) -"breaks" can give you a lot of time to re-validate yourself  amen to that. and honestly dont be friends right AFTER you guys broke up. give like a day or a few. well heres my rule: the number of months you dated equal to the number of days you're allowed to mope over them. after that, move on. and seroiusly say things when they bug you. anddd well heres one for me, meet their friends. not just him meeting your friendss **noteeee *ahemmmm** and if you dont go to the same school. (even if you only live 20 minutes away from each other) make sure u can make some sacrifices for each other to see each other more than twice a week (which is on the weekends) drop by even for 5 minutes in the hours after school. |
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