3 of My Friends, read more and help me... |
 Nov 22 2005, 05:52 PM
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burning inside  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,556  |
okay, i have to best friends (both girls) and i found out a while back that they both like me, a lot. i don't know what to say to them without hurting one of their feelings.
and now, i was at a GSA meet for my school (i'm straight as can be) and we did these activities and i met people and got their emails, but this one guy, (name withheld) "Steve" emailed me a while back and asked me if i would go out with him, i haven't replied back since then, cause i think i would hurt his self-esteem and emotional side. HELP! |
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Nov 28 2005, 10:12 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Honesty is the best policy. If you try to beat around the bush in this situation you will only prolong and intensify any hurt or ill feelings. Let "Steve" know your sexual orientation. Tell your female friends that you value their friendships and would never want to hurt either of them. Let them know that you are under a difficult situation at the time.
Sleep on it. Once you get your thoughts clear, be honest about them to your friends. If they are true friends, they'll understand. Just be gentle, thoughtful, and honest. Deceiving either of them, or yourself, would be a bad idea. Good luck. |
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akgoth123 3 of My Friends Nov 22 2005, 05:52 PM
Shortiiex i was going to join the G.S.A but never got a chan... Nov 22 2005, 06:26 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b About the guy If youre straight, tell him so.
Ab... Nov 22 2005, 07:22 PM
andromeda_90 QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Nov... Nov 23 2005, 07:14 PM akgoth123 i never really have noticed, but me and my friend ... Nov 23 2005, 03:54 PM richc well, about the guy
definitely reply
"silen... Nov 23 2005, 04:10 PM lilxl0ser uhh...okay...tell the guy you're straight beca... Nov 23 2005, 05:43 PM mipadi QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 23 2005, 5:43 PM)uhh...... Nov 23 2005, 09:45 PM BOLIN_Vee who cares if it hurts him! tell her no ur not ... Nov 23 2005, 08:07 PM _sarcastic_ if you don't like any of your bestfriends, you... Nov 24 2005, 07:43 AM K!$$ You have to tell them you're not interested, b... Nov 24 2005, 08:46 AM hottiebheibi QUOTE"silence hurts more than words"
i ... Nov 24 2005, 08:52 AM MeLoNiSyUmMy QUOTE(akgoth123 @ Nov 22 2005, 5:52 PM)okay, ... Nov 24 2005, 09:16 AM akgoth123 i already have told him i was straight, but it did... Nov 28 2005, 03:55 PM HuGzNKissEs Okay well I have a gay guy friend & when he li... Nov 28 2005, 06:19 PM jEllyBeaNs -well for tha guy....uhh...well u should reply, an... Nov 28 2005, 10:06 PM |
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