okay soooo i just got out of a relationship Options

[teeners4]

well like i know you should try to stay friends with your ex and stuff right? and the break up was mutual, but i still feel like i got dumped for some reason. o_o anywhooo he said he wanted to stay friends. so last nite was the day right after we dumped each other. and well the whole night he was inching me.

like if he wanted to stay friends why would he act so arrogant and stuff you know? and he kept teasing me and it was so annoying. i mean he said he wanted to stay friends so why doesnt he act that way?

my friend pointed out that maybe he's always acted that way but i never noticed his flaws. but it seemed kinda on purpose if you know what i mean.

pure bs. the whole night it was like he was trying to be the center of attention and trying to prove that hes having more fun than me being single and im thinking "wow way to stay mature"

so like should i even make an effort to maintain a friendship cause he asked for it or should i just ignore it and just keep going and dont even give an effort for a friendship.

cause i know the "right thing to do" is stay friends but when do you know its not even worth it cause hes such a prick?

[lit0chinagirl]

AHHHH the aftermath. my relationship ended like a few months ago and we both agreed to be friends and sometimes it's still a little awkward for me considering how much of jerk he was being at times so now it's just so weird that he can still face me after it all but other times, it seems like we never even went out.

it's just that guys get over breakups and all a little quicker than us. well not necessarily but they dont let it get to them as much as some might and yeah, he's going want to prove to you that he's better off without you for himself and maybe to you and everyone else to seem like the tough guy. anyways, we're all still so young so he probably doesn't know how to act. he's still a little boy inside. by bothering you like that, it shows that he probably still cares for you.

all and all, i think it's worth a try. things will most likely tone down a little as time passes but if he just keeps ticking you off then you have your right to keep your distance and still remain as one of those very casual friend or acquintance types.

good luck dear