okay soooo i just got out of a relationship Options

[teeners4]

well like i know you should try to stay friends with your ex and stuff right? and the break up was mutual, but i still feel like i got dumped for some reason. o_o anywhooo he said he wanted to stay friends. so last nite was the day right after we dumped each other. and well the whole night he was inching me.

like if he wanted to stay friends why would he act so arrogant and stuff you know? and he kept teasing me and it was so annoying. i mean he said he wanted to stay friends so why doesnt he act that way?

my friend pointed out that maybe he's always acted that way but i never noticed his flaws. but it seemed kinda on purpose if you know what i mean.

pure bs. the whole night it was like he was trying to be the center of attention and trying to prove that hes having more fun than me being single and im thinking "wow way to stay mature"

so like should i even make an effort to maintain a friendship cause he asked for it or should i just ignore it and just keep going and dont even give an effort for a friendship.

cause i know the "right thing to do" is stay friends but when do you know its not even worth it cause hes such a prick?

[misoshiru]

^ that's a good theory.

but wait, what's "inching you"? maybe he just feels insecure right now. i think you should give it some time if you really want to be friends with him, because i've never known anyone, who just got out of relationship and went straight back to friends.