Taking chances with a guy, I'd love your opinions Options

[ceara cecilyrose]

Lets say you've managed to fall completely head over heels for someone you met online. They live interstate and feel the same way about you, although you've only been chatting for 3 or 4 months.
What do you do? You're quite certain that he's exactly who and what he says he is and are thinking of just jumping on a plane and staying with him in his house for a few weeks.

I'm really curious about what other people would do in this situation.
I was in this situation around three months back, so after some people have replied, I'll tell you my story.

[yummy_delight]

Congratulations about your boyfriend! I'm glad that you were lucky enough to find love that way.

However, I don't think it was the smartest move. You could have been UNLUCKY and ended up on the doorstep of a pedophile or someone who'd wear your skin as a suit. I definitely wouldn't do it. Hell, I'm scared to give out my address on the Internet, let alone meet someone.

The only time it's ever semi-happened to me is when I met this guy online that lived a city away. I never met him, but I found out that some of my friends knew him and I talked to them about the guy. They said he was bad news because he was into drugs (which I knew) and he hit his old girlfriend so I didn't go see him as we had planned.