Liking Best friend's Girlfriend..., uhm...help? Options

[V_TEK]

My friend and I are like good friends for like 3 or 4 years now. He met this one girl last year. When we hang out I get to know her more as a friend that is. I wasn't evening thinking about her.
When I hang out with my friend, I say I like this and that and then he's like no way so does my girlfriend. Me and her have a lot of things in common even more then those two.
Often I've told him that I am jealous that he found a girl like that. Not because he have a girlfriend and I don't. But what he have right now is what I've been looking for. I can't take her away from my best friend, that would be so rude. But I can't help myself when im with her. She smile at me a lot and talk to me. But I try not to talk too much to her or else my friend would get the wrong idea. What do you guys think I should do.. I mean this one girl could be my soul mate?(perhaps) but he is my only best friend! I don't knowww....

[*mipadi*]

It can be hard to find a "girlfriend"-type person that you really connect to; but it can be as hard to find a "best friend"-type person that you can really connect with, too. Ask yourself: Is it worth it to throw out something that is definite (your relationship with your best friend) for something that may or may not last that long (a relationship with this girl)? Unfortunately, it seems like in this case, you can only choose one or the other.

On a less serious note, you could always just wait for them to break up, and then snag her down the road, when it's blown over with your mate.