Confused, about a guy |
Confused, about a guy |
May 14 2004, 05:01 PM
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this one time at band camp... ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,926 |
Okay, i have a boyfriend and ive been dating him since Tuesday. I know that seems like not a long time, but i love him. I REALLY love him. And i`m afraid to tell him because he`s not ready to tell me he loves me, he doesnt yet. I`m okay with that, but i`m dying to say the words. Everybody else says i`m going too fast because i made out with him and let him feel my breasts. I dont think i`m going too fast, but i`m his first girlfriend.
My questions: Am i going too fast for him? Should i tell him i love him? |
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May 14 2004, 08:25 PM
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Here is a story I can relate to. I dated this guy. He told me he loved me less than a week into our relationship. It made me uncomfortable and worried. Three months later, he breaks up with me, and one month after that, he begs me to take him back. He basically says that if we were older, he'd go down on one knee and propose marraige to me. Now...I just turned 17 recently and he is 16 until Aug. The fact is you need to wait. Men tend to be scared of commitment and saying those three words will petrify him. I know it is not what you wanna hear, but somewhere in your mind, you know it is too soon. Wait in a couple of months...last thing you would want to do is make him feel as if he should love you now or make him feel uncomfortable. As for you loving him, I'd understand if you had some kind of crush or more for him for longer than you've been going out. Maybe...months or yrs? Just...don't make him feel rushed. This is what I can contribute to your problem. Hope I helped.
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MrTurtle Confused May 14 2004, 05:01 PM
dukesoccer07 Wait a couple weeks May 14 2004, 05:03 PM
LiNHy POO WHOA! i say your going pretty fast... you made... May 14 2004, 05:07 PM
conster wow... i think u should wait... that is... too fas... May 14 2004, 05:45 PM
silver rain Whoa, I think you are going too fast. wait awhile ... May 14 2004, 05:46 PM
DoOdOox3 too fast May 14 2004, 05:56 PM
x_angawhomps Yeah.. last Tuesday?! LETTING HIM TOUCH YOUR B... May 14 2004, 06:16 PM
x hYpErRoSeY x if your his first- give it time, wait a while. don... May 14 2004, 06:42 PM
Winter Wow you're going way too fast! How do you ... May 14 2004, 07:20 PM
CEP Whoa.
He feels you up already?
You should tell me ... May 14 2004, 07:24 PM
TiNaBaBY074 hMmM..i guess you're going a lil fast..im not ... May 14 2004, 07:30 PM![]() ![]() |