Taking chances with a guy, I'd love your opinions Options

[ceara cecilyrose]

Lets say you've managed to fall completely head over heels for someone you met online. They live interstate and feel the same way about you, although you've only been chatting for 3 or 4 months.
What do you do? You're quite certain that he's exactly who and what he says he is and are thinking of just jumping on a plane and staying with him in his house for a few weeks.

I'm really curious about what other people would do in this situation.
I was in this situation around three months back, so after some people have replied, I'll tell you my story.

[ceara cecilyrose]

Hehe

I was mostly interested in hearing stories and opinions from other people. I definitely don't think I need advice on this before :)

Anyways, I booked an interstate flight in a snap decision that I should definitely meet this guy and the plan was that I'd stay with him for 9 days at his house! Of course, I was scared stiff, knowing full well that I was doing something that most would think extremely unwise. I didn't meet him in a neutral location. The first time I laid eyes on him for real was when I arrived at his door. More than that, I didn't even have alternate accomodations arranged (although I did have an emergency plan of course!).

When I arrived at his door, we took one look at each other and landed in each others arms. It was incredibly romantic. Everything moved in slow motion!
I was so overcome and blown away by him that I couldn't talk for hours, just clung to him because I couldn't think of anything to say. It was love before first site :)
We both got over our shyness after a few hours though.
We've been together every since - most of it together physically as well as mentally. I ended up staying with him for two weeks and then when I came back home, I brought him with me and we stayed together for another month and half. We love each other to an incredible extent and will happily spend almost all of our time together.
In a few days, I'm jumping on a plane again to stay with him again.

It's almost enough to make me believe in fate...