Fairly Tales, am i stuck in one? |
 Nov 22 2005, 11:05 AM
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I happen to be the average girl who watched fairly tales as a child & thought the best part was when the two main characters would fall in love.....(beauty & the beast...Ariel & Eric...cinderella & the prince...snow white & her prince...sleeping beauty & her prince...etc.) & now that i'm older i watch chick flicks with the same basic principle.
Well i've sorta stuck it in my head that guys really are that sweet & loving. But it seems like everytime my b/f & I kiss & stuff he just gets hard.....  ...& then once again my little fairly tale bubble is bursted. I've tried talking to him about it & i understand that he IS a guy but....isnt there ANY guy out there who kisses a girl & actually thinks about JUST that kiss for that one moment & like everything just stands still??? ANYONE?? Please help!
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Nov 22 2005, 01:42 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
Yup, I'm a guy and from my experiences you are just living that good old fairy tale in your head...guys are just.....guys and they act the way they do.
And after three years you'd expect that from a guy ^___^. BUT BE CAREFUL...emotions definitely change after sex...on both sides. lmao I dont get "hard" when I kiss my girlfriend because it's out of sheer love, not lust. Also, it depends on the guy's mindset to begin with ; I dont' cave into girls easily at all and therefore it takes A LOT for a female to get my attention in the first place... ...relationships seem so much better when you just keep lust out of it. I'd rather cuddle on the couch for 2 hours then make out for 2 hours, but that's just me ; and that's one reason why my relationship has lasted for a very very long time. Relationships are ALL different and some relationships strive on the lustful side, mine just happens to fall onto the more lovey side... but ask yourself, "Where does mine lie?" LHHRS Kevyn @-)--------- Edit: Hmmm after reading the previous posts I must say you should use caution because sex can either make or break your relationship and it would be a tragedy to have waited three years only to have a change of heart on his part ; I've heard of something called "sexual breakdown" where after a couple has sex for the first time for some reason there are stimulated emotions that run through both partners and it triggers some sort of doubtful feeling (Mainly on the female's end) but three years? It shouldn't be a problem, any couple that lasts this long should truly love each other and be ok. This post has been edited by Kneuklid Romance: Nov 22 2005, 01:48 PM |
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HuGzNKissEs Fairly Tales Nov 22 2005, 11:05 AM
Chii well, you keep repeating over and over that you... Nov 22 2005, 12:40 PM Kristinaa After 3 years, it would make sense that the guy is... Nov 22 2005, 01:33 PM _sarcastic_ 3 years.. long time you know, maybe he thinks it... Nov 22 2005, 03:58 PM NyCaZnShOrtAii rofl Nov 22 2005, 11:30 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 how cute, obviously when u grow older u know there... Nov 23 2005, 03:27 AM hottiebheibi the problem... you stick to your fairy tales... yo... Nov 23 2005, 10:57 AM mzbbc well that's sweet and definetly not a bad thi... Nov 23 2005, 02:10 PM lit0chinagirl well maybe disney forgot to add in the hormonal pa... Nov 26 2005, 07:10 PM KissMe2408 I understand what you are saying. I'm the same... Nov 26 2005, 07:55 PM ceara cecilyrose Oh for crying out loud!
What do you EXPECT a ... Nov 26 2005, 10:28 PM DaTru KataLYST ni yao xiang xing
xiang xin wo men hui xiang tong ... Nov 27 2005, 01:37 AM xoxo_koala_kisses_ ^ Agreed with what almost everyone's already s... Nov 27 2005, 03:52 PM
HybridCountdown5 hey, sex/ "a more mature relationship" i... Dec 27 2005, 01:29 AM |
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