parent problems, ...parents dont allow gf... Options

[richc]

alright..

my parents dont allow me to have a gf...

and i have one...and i love her and dont plan on breaking up anytime soon

her parents also dont allow her to have a bf

any suggestions?
or am i just scrwed?

[seremela_culnamo]

I have no clue if my parents will ever let me have a boyfriend. So if my crush does eventually like me back if he hasn't noticed already or whatever that everyone says from the things he does and such, I don't think I will tell my parents. I know that if I do, eventually everything will be blamed on him. Like if my marks aren't as high as it should be, then it's "bye bye" and such. I have no clue what's going on. My bratty little sibling has been saying I was going out with him like..over a month or something (wow. time flies by!) But we aren't. Everyone in my family knows about this guy and I just deny it, espeically when it's not true and having someone tease you when you do like this guy and he's not even with me! But yea. No reactions from my mom yet. My dad, he just keeps silent. I dunno. My mom seems okay if we do, but at the same time, if I do end up with my crush, I think she will have something to say. Regardless of how nice, smart and all the stuff he is.

You know what I realized. Those whose parents say that they should wait till after college or something, tend to be around 13 or 14. I swear my parents were like that before. Or at least they were kidding or something. But I'm 17 now, soon to be 18 earlier next year. But yea. Don't worry. You're still young. Like when I look back to all my crushes and stuff back when I was only 13 or 14, I can't believe that I even liked those guys or anything. It's not as real and such until you get older.