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richc
post Nov 21 2005, 05:34 PM
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alright..

my parents dont allow me to have a gf...

and i have one...and i love her and dont plan on breaking up anytime soon

her parents also dont allow her to have a bf ermm.gif

any suggestions?
or am i just scrwed?
 
 
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post Nov 21 2005, 06:19 PM
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^Please use the EDIT button instead of double posting.

Anyway, I think that by you both going behind your parents' back and dating each other is really immature and it just shows you aren't ready for a relationship. I'm not saying this to be mean or anything but because it's true. If you both were ready for a serious relationship (which is where you are taking it to if you want to say you 'love' her which is not something to be taken lightly) then you would have both been ready for the consequences of being in a relationship and/or you would have been able to approach your parents as mature adults explaining to them that you think you two should be able to date. I guess you really don't have much to do now. If you tell them, they'll most likely get angry for two reasons instead of the just one if you had mentioned in beforehand.

And I hope you didn't get offended by any of that because it really is TRUE. I know because I've been in the same situations and it's best to come out with the fact that you two want to date (in the beginning) vs keeping it a secret and risking getting each other into even bigger trouble.
 

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richc   parent problems   Nov 21 2005, 05:34 PM
Nicolatofu   Ok 2 questions- How long have you been going out a...   Nov 21 2005, 05:44 PM
richc   we've been goin out for 3 months and my 14th ...   Nov 21 2005, 06:04 PM
richc   oh, and shes 13   Nov 21 2005, 06:13 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY   ^Please use the EDIT button instead of double post...   Nov 21 2005, 06:19 PM
richc   no i dont think u get it... my parents want me to...   Nov 21 2005, 06:37 PM
waccoon   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 6:37 PM)no i dont ...   Nov 21 2005, 06:43 PM
Madame C   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 6:37 PM)no i dont ...   Nov 21 2005, 07:10 PM
lilxl0ser   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 6:37 PM)no i dont ...   Nov 21 2005, 07:15 PM
x1hn0cent   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 7:37 PM)no i dont ...   Nov 21 2005, 07:56 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 5:37 PM)no i dont ...   Nov 22 2005, 12:33 AM
silver rain   Frankly, I don't think you really mean it when...   Nov 21 2005, 06:53 PM
Shortiiex   your still young i think you shouldn't tell yo...   Nov 21 2005, 07:12 PM
Madame C   ^ Well that's not good. That's like lying...   Nov 21 2005, 07:13 PM
richc   any other suggestions besides breaking up?   Nov 21 2005, 07:18 PM
SimplicityGirl   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 5:18 PM)any other ...   Nov 21 2005, 08:06 PM
silver rain   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 7:18 PM)any other ...   Nov 21 2005, 10:32 PM
lilxl0ser   *pst pst maybe breaking up seems to be popular bec...   Nov 21 2005, 07:23 PM
richc   "wats popular isnt always right" haha   Nov 21 2005, 07:28 PM
Shortiiex   well does your parents have a good reason for you ...   Nov 21 2005, 07:31 PM
richc   they just say im too young   Nov 21 2005, 07:42 PM
not_your_average   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 7:42 PM)they just ...   Nov 22 2005, 12:37 AM
xosugarkissesox   QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 8:42 PM)they just ...   Nov 22 2005, 07:04 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1   maybe u shouldnt tell ur parents :O   Nov 21 2005, 08:23 PM
elainedcuzunome   maybe you should put your relationship on hold for...   Nov 21 2005, 09:05 PM
peggysturr   Break the relationship and be friends.   Nov 22 2005, 12:34 AM
seremela_culnamo   I have no clue if my parents will ever let me have...   Nov 22 2005, 12:41 AM
Programmer   don't worry there will come a day where you wi...   Nov 22 2005, 07:08 PM


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