parent problems, ...parents dont allow gf... |
 Nov 21 2005, 05:34 PM
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Changa  Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 177,785  |
alright..
my parents dont allow me to have a gf... and i have one...and i love her and dont plan on breaking up anytime soon her parents also dont allow her to have a bf  any suggestions? or am i just scrwed? |
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Nov 21 2005, 06:19 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
^Please use the EDIT button instead of double posting.
Anyway, I think that by you both going behind your parents' back and dating each other is really immature and it just shows you aren't ready for a relationship. I'm not saying this to be mean or anything but because it's true. If you both were ready for a serious relationship (which is where you are taking it to if you want to say you 'love' her which is not something to be taken lightly) then you would have both been ready for the consequences of being in a relationship and/or you would have been able to approach your parents as mature adults explaining to them that you think you two should be able to date. I guess you really don't have much to do now. If you tell them, they'll most likely get angry for two reasons instead of the just one if you had mentioned in beforehand. And I hope you didn't get offended by any of that because it really is TRUE. I know because I've been in the same situations and it's best to come out with the fact that you two want to date (in the beginning) vs keeping it a secret and risking getting each other into even bigger trouble. |
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richc parent problems Nov 21 2005, 05:34 PM
Nicolatofu Ok 2 questions- How long have you been going out a... Nov 21 2005, 05:44 PM richc we've been goin out for 3 months
and my 14th ... Nov 21 2005, 06:04 PM richc oh, and shes 13 Nov 21 2005, 06:13 PM richc no i dont think u get it...
my parents want me to... Nov 21 2005, 06:37 PM
waccoon QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 6:37 PM)no i dont ... Nov 21 2005, 06:43 PM Madame C QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 6:37 PM)no i dont ... Nov 21 2005, 07:10 PM lilxl0ser QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 6:37 PM)no i dont ... Nov 21 2005, 07:15 PM x1hn0cent QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 7:37 PM)no i dont ... Nov 21 2005, 07:56 PM
M1SSxCHR1SSY QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 5:37 PM)no i dont ... Nov 22 2005, 12:33 AM silver rain Frankly, I don't think you really mean it when... Nov 21 2005, 06:53 PM Shortiiex your still young
i think you shouldn't tell yo... Nov 21 2005, 07:12 PM Madame C ^ Well that's not good. That's like lying... Nov 21 2005, 07:13 PM richc any other suggestions besides breaking up? Nov 21 2005, 07:18 PM SimplicityGirl QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 5:18 PM)any other ... Nov 21 2005, 08:06 PM silver rain QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 7:18 PM)any other ... Nov 21 2005, 10:32 PM lilxl0ser *pst pst maybe breaking up seems to be popular bec... Nov 21 2005, 07:23 PM richc "wats popular isnt always right"
haha Nov 21 2005, 07:28 PM Shortiiex well does your parents have a good reason for you ... Nov 21 2005, 07:31 PM richc they just say im too young Nov 21 2005, 07:42 PM not_your_average QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 7:42 PM)they just ... Nov 22 2005, 12:37 AM xosugarkissesox QUOTE(richc @ Nov 21 2005, 8:42 PM)they just ... Nov 22 2005, 07:04 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 maybe u shouldnt tell ur parents :O Nov 21 2005, 08:23 PM elainedcuzunome maybe you should put your relationship on hold for... Nov 21 2005, 09:05 PM peggysturr Break the relationship and be friends. Nov 22 2005, 12:34 AM seremela_culnamo I have no clue if my parents will ever let me have... Nov 22 2005, 12:41 AM Programmer don't worry there will come a day where you wi... Nov 22 2005, 07:08 PM |
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