parent problems, ...parents dont allow gf... |
parent problems, ...parents dont allow gf... |
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Changa ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 177,785 ![]() |
alright..
my parents dont allow me to have a gf... and i have one...and i love her and dont plan on breaking up anytime soon her parents also dont allow her to have a bf ![]() any suggestions? or am i just scrwed? |
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 ![]() |
^Please use the EDIT button instead of double posting.
Anyway, I think that by you both going behind your parents' back and dating each other is really immature and it just shows you aren't ready for a relationship. I'm not saying this to be mean or anything but because it's true. If you both were ready for a serious relationship (which is where you are taking it to if you want to say you 'love' her which is not something to be taken lightly) then you would have both been ready for the consequences of being in a relationship and/or you would have been able to approach your parents as mature adults explaining to them that you think you two should be able to date. I guess you really don't have much to do now. If you tell them, they'll most likely get angry for two reasons instead of the just one if you had mentioned in beforehand. And I hope you didn't get offended by any of that because it really is TRUE. I know because I've been in the same situations and it's best to come out with the fact that you two want to date (in the beginning) vs keeping it a secret and risking getting each other into even bigger trouble. |
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