do u guys..., hate girl wearing make-up? Options

[lilmissphat04]

imma girl n most of my guy friend like natural beauty anyway how u guys think?

edit//sorry, i was typing mindlessly so the choices with "if it looks gd on her; no" n "if it looks bad on her; yes"

[sadolakced acid]

I know I've posted this elsewhere, but that topic is probably going to get closed because it's practically this topic.

I despise the idea of makeup because I am looking for love, not just sex.

Okay, so you have a person. This person wishes to attract other people of the opposite sex to them. Instead of showing their true selves, they choose to wear a mask. This produces better results on a very basic level for attracting mates, because the mask is more interesting than just a normal face. This basic level of attraction isn't based in truth about the mask wearer. This basic attraction cuts out the whole getting to know you part outright, and immediately. Instead of the opposite sex choosing this mask wearer for it's personality, it chooses it for sexual appeal only, and will just fill in the gaps after they have made their choice on this.

Very basic psychology. If people were looking for love, rather than sex, they would choose to not wear a mask, as the mask only attracts those who want sex, and bases a relationship on a lie.

look at it this way:

a girl can choose what makeup to wear. therefore, any makeup she wears is a direct reflection of her personality. mayhaps her personality is to copy, or otherwise. but what makeup does besides attracting sexually, as clothing and other body adornments do, is reveal something about wearer.

sure, it's a mask. but it's a mask that says "who i am chose this mask. it wasn't given to me by my parents: this mask shows me."

[verlorenrivets]

look at it this way:

a girl can choose what makeup to wear.  therefore, any makeup she wears is a direct reflection of her personality. mayhaps her personality is to copy, or otherwise.  but what makeup does besides attracting sexually, as clothing and other body adornments do, is reveal something about wearer.

sure, it's a mask.  but it's a mask that says "who i am chose this mask.  it wasn't given to me by my parents:  this mask shows me."

But that's just the thing, they can make the mask say anything they want you to think about who they are, whether or not it actually reflects who they are under it. Not everyone has the intention to show who they actually are, though you make a valid point for the ones that do.