Ex-boyfriend is flirting with my friend |
 Nov 19 2005, 05:12 PM
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Hey,
Last year I had this boyfriend who I couldn't stand by the end of the relationship (despite that I told him I would still be his friend). He was upset over our break up over the summer and I could tell that at the beginning of the year he still liked me a little. Now I always see him flirting with my friend who likes him at play practice. When I first noticed that it made me really angry. I didn't understand it. I don't love the guy and going out with him was the worst choice I ever made so why is this making me so angry? I also feel like there is something I have to win but I don't know what it is. I've come up with a few solutions. 1: Maybe I still have this idea that he belongs to me or something because when I see them flirting it feels so surreal. 2: I feel like I've been winning since June (the break-up). Since I haven't really liked him at all since our relationship ended I feel like I had power over someone I don't like and that is satisfying. However, if he is over me for sure, I've lost. But I don't kbnow what I'm trying to win. 3: He might be trying to get back at me for the break-up by flirting with my friend (and soon going out with her). Maybe it is one of these, or maybe it's all of them. I don't know exactly what it is yet so if someone could please give me some more ideas that mght be nice. I really want to know who else has ever felt this way before. I want to take the high road and let my friend go out with him but I don't know how to get over this anger. Do you guys think I'm being a total brat over nothing or is this natural? I've never had a boyfriend go out with my friend before. |
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Nov 20 2005, 01:08 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well u DID break up with him, what is he suppose to do? Kill himself? Make himself have no life. he moved on. If u didnt want to feel what u felt now, u shouldnt have broke up wit him.
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Nov 20 2005, 05:24 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Nov 20 2005, 1:08 PM) well u DID break up with him, what is he suppose to do? Kill himself? Make himself have no life. he moved on. If u didnt want to feel what u felt now, u shouldnt have broke up wit him.  ^ she knows what shes talking about. |
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Little Bird Ex-boyfriend is flirting with my friend Nov 19 2005, 05:12 PM
c4rL4 i think youre just actin that way because maybe yo... Nov 20 2005, 03:52 AM miixxtapelove I'd say your first guess is closet. After havi... Nov 20 2005, 04:50 AM K!$$ I think all three are true. It's not really h... Nov 20 2005, 07:59 AM Little Bird Thank's everyone. I'm glad its just natura... Nov 20 2005, 12:09 PM DrEaMgUy2K1 1. Relationships isnt about winning or losing.
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Little Bird You guys are right, I just really need to be matur... Nov 20 2005, 03:03 PM sheepy well i think it's either 1 or 3. if oyu dont l... Nov 20 2005, 08:40 PM LittleLulu its totaly normal
...probably the exact same thin... Nov 20 2005, 11:23 PM
waccoon Kick him in the nuts to teach him a lesson. <3 Nov 20 2005, 11:24 PM |
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