Ex-boyfriend is flirting with my friend |
 Nov 19 2005, 05:12 PM
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Hey,
Last year I had this boyfriend who I couldn't stand by the end of the relationship (despite that I told him I would still be his friend). He was upset over our break up over the summer and I could tell that at the beginning of the year he still liked me a little. Now I always see him flirting with my friend who likes him at play practice. When I first noticed that it made me really angry. I didn't understand it. I don't love the guy and going out with him was the worst choice I ever made so why is this making me so angry? I also feel like there is something I have to win but I don't know what it is. I've come up with a few solutions. 1: Maybe I still have this idea that he belongs to me or something because when I see them flirting it feels so surreal. 2: I feel like I've been winning since June (the break-up). Since I haven't really liked him at all since our relationship ended I feel like I had power over someone I don't like and that is satisfying. However, if he is over me for sure, I've lost. But I don't kbnow what I'm trying to win. 3: He might be trying to get back at me for the break-up by flirting with my friend (and soon going out with her). Maybe it is one of these, or maybe it's all of them. I don't know exactly what it is yet so if someone could please give me some more ideas that mght be nice. I really want to know who else has ever felt this way before. I want to take the high road and let my friend go out with him but I don't know how to get over this anger. Do you guys think I'm being a total brat over nothing or is this natural? I've never had a boyfriend go out with my friend before. |
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Nov 20 2005, 12:30 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
1. Relationships isnt about winning or losing.
2. Just beause you hate him doesnt mean things wont work with ur friend and him. 3. its normal for you take hate an ex for trying to hook up with a friend The best thing u can do is warn your friend if hes a bad guy or not. dont cock block him |
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Little Bird Ex-boyfriend is flirting with my friend Nov 19 2005, 05:12 PM
c4rL4 i think youre just actin that way because maybe yo... Nov 20 2005, 03:52 AM miixxtapelove I'd say your first guess is closet. After havi... Nov 20 2005, 04:50 AM K!$$ I think all three are true. It's not really h... Nov 20 2005, 07:59 AM Little Bird Thank's everyone. I'm glad its just natura... Nov 20 2005, 12:09 PM mouse_3k well u DID break up with him, what is he suppose t... Nov 20 2005, 01:08 PM
babygurl_xtacy QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Nov 20 2005, 1:08 PM)well u ... Nov 20 2005, 05:24 PM Little Bird You guys are right, I just really need to be matur... Nov 20 2005, 03:03 PM sheepy well i think it's either 1 or 3. if oyu dont l... Nov 20 2005, 08:40 PM LittleLulu its totaly normal
...probably the exact same thin... Nov 20 2005, 11:23 PM waccoon Kick him in the nuts to teach him a lesson. <3 Nov 20 2005, 11:24 PM |
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