You Shouldn't Doubt your Worth |
 Nov 17 2005, 05:06 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians  Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066  |
Alright my guy friend, I like him. But he has a girlfriend.
Recently, she broke up with him and he's allll emotional about it. Sure it's my chance to take him on but he loves her so much. He even CRIES. omg first time. and he hasn't been out of his room for 2 and a half weeks I don't want to rush him or anything but I want to make him feel, not unworthy. He feels so unwanted and unloved. I want to tell him that without me confessing my feelings for him (because apparently, he thinks of me as a sister  ). Does anyone know a way that I can perhaps heal him? I love him so much but seeing him this way is so depressing. I don't want him to be sad anymore. I want to help him.*edit* IF THERE ARE MODS THAT FOUND OUT THIS TOPIC HAS BEEN MADE.... SORRRRYYY PLEASE DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL YOU SHOULD DO *edit* no matter how much i tell him how i need him (as a friend ) he still won't listen 
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Nov 18 2005, 12:22 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
You posted that you wanted to "heal" him. Let me just tell you this now, you can't heal him or fix him. You can help him, but don't get those two things mixed up.
He's heartbroken from this past relationship, so right now he needs a friend. Try to put your feelings aside for him, and just be there for him. you know? talk to him, let him know you are there and listening. I wouldn't even think about getting in a relationship with him for a long time, he needs some time to get over this last girl |
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andromeda_90 You Shouldn't Doubt your Worth Nov 17 2005, 05:06 PM
Shortiiex you just have to let him know that you will always... Nov 17 2005, 06:20 PM
andromeda_90 QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Nov 17 2005, 6:20 PM)but th... Nov 17 2005, 06:33 PM Shortiiex it's hard to get over someone you love...you s... Nov 17 2005, 06:53 PM c0cONuTTeR If he starts getting emotional, I think what would... Nov 17 2005, 07:01 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 17 2005, 7:01 PM)If he... Nov 17 2005, 07:04 PM gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 17 2005, 8:01 PM)If he... Nov 17 2005, 10:16 PM angel_revelation QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 17 2005, 4:01 PM)If he... Nov 17 2005, 11:22 PM andromeda_90 ^I did that once...but he too pessimistic that he ... Nov 18 2005, 04:03 PM aera since he acknowledged you as his "sister,... Nov 17 2005, 09:02 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b ^ But she wants him to be more than just a friend.... Nov 17 2005, 09:11 PM LittleLulu he really needs time. only time can heal a broken ... Nov 18 2005, 12:49 AM c4rL4 i was in this situation. just yesterday.
sort of..... Nov 18 2005, 03:10 AM K!$$ I've gone through one of those. It was awful ... Nov 18 2005, 04:33 AM xFaith Do fun stuff with him.. for distraction.
If you k... Nov 18 2005, 12:28 PM Retrogressive Just dump him. Tell him you won't put up with ... Nov 18 2005, 04:13 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(Retrogressive @ Nov 18 2005, 4:13 PM)Ju... Nov 18 2005, 04:28 PM Retrogressive HAHA, my real advice is to let off him for a while... Nov 18 2005, 04:53 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(Retrogressive @ Nov 18 2005, 4:53 PM)Bu... Nov 18 2005, 04:55 PM |
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