kissing, can anyone explain it? Options

[disturbed_pengui...]

ok i am 14 and my boyfriend of about a month or so is getting extremely interested in the whole "kissing" idea . of course im ready to do that, its not really that big of a deal because i have kissed guys before...and normally the kisses between my bf and i go pretty well . but now he wants to make out . now THERES sumthing i havent done. im not scared, and im mature enuf to do it... its just that i dont know how, and i do NOT want to make a fool out of myself in front of him, the fact being that he is EXTREMELY experienced *ugh*

SO can anyone just explain how making out goes? ive asked my friends and they all say "it comes naturally". is that true or is there some *process* lol .... or maybe should i just not do it at all? is it even really that great? *sigh* so confused

[topsyturvy]

lol...usually until you get bored of it or you think hes crossed the line by touching or pushing up on or  doing anything he shouldnt be doing. he prolly wont but you gotta watch out for these things. and another way to turn on the brakes is to just sorta start talkin right in the middle of a kiss. if he insists just give him a little push so its friendly and playful yet heel know youre serious

PS: a big plus is to have like some sort of flavoured lipstick or lip gloss on. and please make sure you dont have bad breath. it really throws a person off.

You're pretty mature (and possibly experienced) for someone that's 13

Listen to him ^