You Shouldn't Doubt your Worth Options

[ParanoidAndroid]

Alright my guy friend, I like him. But he has a girlfriend.

Recently, she broke up with him and he's allll emotional about it. Sure it's my chance to take him on but he loves her so much. He even CRIES. omg first time. and he hasn't been out of his room for 2 and a half weeks

I don't want to rush him or anything but I want to make him feel, not unworthy. He feels so unwanted and unloved. I want to tell him that without me confessing my feelings for him (because apparently, he thinks of me as a sister ). Does anyone know a way that I can perhaps heal him? I love him so much but seeing him this way is so depressing. I don't want him to be sad anymore. I want to help him.

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no matter how much i tell him how i need him (as a friend ) he still won't listen

[topsyturvy]

I've gone through one of those. It was awful at first but i made it work

.. Then it was all awful again

But anyway, i advise giving him some air to mourn alone for now.. Even if it breaks your heart to see him so depressed. Don't shower him with too much attention or try to bribe him out of his misery, but never cease to remain at his side, offering words of encouragement and whatnot when he needs it. Just remember to be there for him during this time.. In time, he'll be over her.

Then that's where you come in. Tell him, "I know you think of me as a little sister, and over time i've developed an ever-growing affection for you as a big brother, but also as something more." Tell him if he's not comfortable with that, it's cool with you. NEVER pressure him into anything. Wait for him. In time, he might finally realize and accept your intentions and who knows what can happen.