call me pathetic. Options

[lit0chinagirl]

EDITED:

thanks guys. time is working it's magic for me.

[SimplicityGirl]

Been through it last year...it was slightly different for me tho. I didn't want a boyfriend in highschool...but then he asked out, and I grew to love him and thought that he meant it. But he broke up with me, and the reason was that he thought that I would say no when he asked me out and that all he wanted was to "see if he could stay with a girl"...so afterwards, I kept on blaming myself for the breakup. I kept on thinking that if I had or had not done certain things, there would be hopes that we would go back together...but in the end, and this took about 5 or 6 months, I FINALLY convinced myself that he just wasn't worth the pain.

I'm not telling you that you'll heal fast. If he was your first love, and I'm thinking he is, it takes a while. First love stays with you for always. But what you gotta do meanwhile...is just tell yourself that it's not your fault..and everytime you catch yourself thinking about him...tell yourself to snap out of it. If you think about him too much, it becomes an obsession..and obsessions are...hard to break.

Good luck ^^