ok fine. girls hate me. Options

[sprezzatura]

For some reason, girls at my school (and other places) just seem to hate me and be jealous at me. Most of them don't like being friends with me, however, I have more girl friends than guy friends.
Those close girl friends I have are b*tchy at me and ignore me, say I am so not "cool" (but what's the standard of "coolness"? The answer is none.) Despite that, I have only one girl friend that I can depend on. I need to thank God if they don't gossip about me. The distant girl friends are okay though. But those close ones, eww. For those that I aren't friends with, they don't even talk to me unless they have to.

On the other hand, guys are really friendly to me. I have several guy friends and I have nice relationships with them. They are always on my side and really caring.

What's the reason behind it? I don't get it. Why do girls hate me and guys are so caring to me?

To Clarify: I only have a couple (like ten) are guy friends, the rest of my friends are all girls. I don't think I am good-looking but probably the reason why I don't get along well with those girls because I don't conform and not follow the popularity.

This post has been edited by peggysturr: Nov 16 2005, 11:47 PM

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

I would do anything just to have great guy friends that I could count on no matter what, the guys in my school are all assholes and only searching for one thing. And I'm pretty girly, so I have a lot of girls as my friends, but theres a lot of drama, because every girls are drama queens. But yea, maybe they envy you, and want to stay away from what they cant have. Don't take it as a bad thing, they could be just jealous of you. Therefore all the more power to ya!