Boyfriend//Best friend ISSUE!!! Help?, Gah... |
 Nov 12 2005, 08:46 AM
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Okay, my boyfriend is absolutely the most perfect person in the world for me. He's so unbelievably... Seriously, we're like puzzle pieces. Every part of him connects with me just so perfectly; we're one of those nauseatingly cute couples... Haha, I know it's stupid. But... Okay, over the summer, he was only my best friend. My big brother even. He was actually really really REALLY crushing on my best friend... Like, he wanted to spend the rest of his LIFE with her... And after she gave him a straight "NO." he crawled to me for help. I was on the phone with this boy for twelve hours a day, talking to him, consoling him, comforting him. After a while... We just clicked. I always wondered if I was just her rebound, and I know I was. It's a hell of a lot different now, he says he doesn't think about her at all anymore... And that he loves me more than he could EVER have loved her... And yet, when the three of us are together with a few other close friends... He flirts with her like CRAZY. Sometimes, he'll even ignore me. SHE'S MY BEST FRIEND. WHAT THE HELL IS HE DOING?! And it's not like he doesn't KNOW he's doing it!!! Once, he said "Ruby, I know me and Muna flirt a lot... It doesn't bother you does it?" "No..." YEAH IT BOTHERS ME!!! And my other best friend (his best friend too) tells me, "Don't you ever get jealous? I hear more about Amber and Muna than I hear about you..." What do I do?? I know I should talk to him... But what do I say?
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Nov 14 2005, 10:24 AM
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OMIGOSHA!!!!!
 i would totally drop kick him in the nuggies...stupid figgster...grrr...if you knew you was his rebound why did you go with him?  if i was you and you really wanted to be with him, just talk to him about it, just tell him that the flirting bothers the hell outa you....and that you've heard that he's been talking about those other girls more than he talks about you...but if that doesnt work, then if i were you, i would totally dump his sorrie lame ash  ++edit oooh yehh!! you should talk to that "best friend" of yours too! hahaha..pssh if she was your best friend she would not be flirting with your man like that...if you asked me thats not even a friend 
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ahmegnutmeg Boyfriend//Best friend ISSUE!!! Help? Nov 12 2005, 08:46 AM
_sarcastic_ well he obviously still has a little feeling for m... Nov 12 2005, 09:18 AM ahmegnutmeg I dunno... I kinda wonder if maybe he talks about ... Nov 12 2005, 09:47 AM silver rain Tell him that his flirting bothers you. It sounds ... Nov 12 2005, 12:25 PM Chii i hate to say it but maybe you were his rebound gi... Nov 12 2005, 12:32 PM HuGzNKissEs Wow....hows about you turn the tables on him...Don... Nov 12 2005, 02:00 PM iNyCxShoRT You should definately start speaking up. I mean if... Nov 12 2005, 03:06 PM iluvyoutoo hmm...it kinda sounds like he has feelings for bot... Nov 12 2005, 05:58 PM yanners talk to both of them. communication is key. Nov 13 2005, 02:59 AM K!$$ QUOTE(ahmegnutmeg @ Nov 12 2005, 8:46 PM)Once... Nov 13 2005, 07:26 AM ahmegnutmeg Thanks so much you guys, it really helped. I flir... Nov 14 2005, 09:19 AM jamieus You should seriously dump his ass. I mean, He... Nov 14 2005, 10:12 AM
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