will you date a guy, who smokes and drinks? Options

[mistaken_identit...]

Ok so here's the thing. I like this guy, and he did like me. He's really shy and he won't tell me that he likes me and everything...so we're just friends now. I guess. So last night we were having this conversation on msn, and somehow we got to the topic about smoking and drinking..he told me he drinks ocassionally and have tried smoking. I was shocked...cause he seems like such a 'good' typo guy and everything..and its not like he's 17 and its legal for him to drink. He's my age which is 15 and its just freaking me out that I liekd a person like that.

WIll you date a guy that smokes and drinks??
I'm not sure about my feelings for him now

[seremela_culnamo]

Hmm, I wouldn't want someone who drinks or smokes. But since pratically everyone drinks or has tried drinking these days, I guess it won't matter much, unless the dude is an alcoholic. Which reminds me, I should ask my crush that. Haha. But for smoking, yuck. Especially when studies say that second hand smoke seems to kill people more than the smokers themselves. Smoking is one of my biggest pet peeves anyway, so yea. I don't do either

Hmm, you can give him a chance. But I think you should find out more or something. You said he has tried smoking before, right? If he still does, it's probably a turn off for you right? Yuck, like who wants to kiss someone or whatsoever if their breath spells, eh? Lol. While for his occasional drinking, meh. As long as he doesn't get drunk and do stupid stuff, I guess that's okay.

But since you're like me - in the way that if I find out anyone I liked drinks or smokes - it totally turns me off and I will stop liking them. It's your choice in the end. Good luck!

Oh yea, I'm not sure where you live, but in Canada, the legal drinking age is officially 19. Younger teenagers tend to get older friends to buy them the drink or get fake I.D. cards. Sad >< At this rate, in the future, I wonder how young kids would start drinking