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 Nov 13 2005, 01:41 AM
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the other day, my mom told me that she had pretty much doomed me to never have a decent relationship with anyone since all i've ever seen has been fighting with her husbands (not simultaneous, past and present, though i don't even know why she and my father divorced, nor can i remember them together) so i'll never be able to trust a man. i found it interesting, though, because what it really has shown me is that no matter how cynical i may be, i'm a hopeless romantic, don't like the idea of dating, and am very glad i'm friends with and like such geeky people rather than attractice jerks. but what do you think? is a person more likely to overcome their environment or fall unintentionally into the same trap?
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Nov 13 2005, 07:35 AM
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 naïvety  Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Personally i'm happy for you for staying away from the "attractive jerks"
 But keep in mind that not all attractive people are jerks.I think you'll overcome your environment. Just because you've been surrounded by bad relationships doesn't mean you can't develop a good one of your own. Just like child abuse, victims can always break the chain.. all it takes is determination and perseverance 
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tweeak learning relationships through parents Nov 13 2005, 01:41 AM
verlorenrivets You will fall unintentionally into the same trap. ... Nov 13 2005, 01:51 AM _sarcastic_ well you might or might not become like your paren... Nov 13 2005, 08:29 AM tweeak QUOTE(K!$$ @ Nov 13 2005, 7:35 ... Nov 13 2005, 02:35 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b My moms the opposite. My parents fight everyday, l... Nov 13 2005, 09:58 PM |
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