will you date a guy, who smokes and drinks? |
 Nov 13 2005, 03:50 AM
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Ok so here's the thing. I like this guy, and he did like me. He's really shy and he won't tell me that he likes me and everything...so we're just friends now. I guess. So last night we were having this conversation on msn, and somehow we got to the topic about smoking and drinking..he told me he drinks ocassionally and have tried smoking. I was shocked...cause he seems like such a 'good' typo guy and everything..and its not like he's 17 and its legal for him to drink. He's my age which is 15 and its just freaking me out that I liekd a person like that.
WIll you date a guy that smokes and drinks?? I'm not sure about my feelings for him now 
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Nov 13 2005, 04:37 AM
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First of all, being 17 years old does not make it legal for him to drink. At least in the United States, you have to be at least 21 years of age to drink.
Secondly, just because a guy drinks and/or smokes doesn't make him a bad guy. He can still fall into the ''good'' guy category. He said that he ''tried'' smoking and he ''occasionally'' drinks. He isn't a goddamn alcoholic drug addicted fool. Don't judge a person so easily. If you really like him, then you can get over the fact that he has done what the majority of high school teenagers do, anyway. Learn his personality and find out about him before you judge him for something as petty as that. |
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mistaken_identity will you date a guy Nov 13 2005, 03:50 AM
xFaith Yeah sure, although i really dont like smokers. bu... Nov 13 2005, 04:42 AM Chii drinking isn't too big of a deal as long as it... Nov 13 2005, 04:45 AM K!$$ QUOTE(Shahin @ Nov 13 2005, 4:37 PM)He said t... Nov 13 2005, 07:16 AM
Rachel is love QUOTE(K!$$ @ Nov 13 2005, 6:16 ... Nov 14 2005, 05:54 PM M1SSxCHR1SSY QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Nov 14 2005, 4:54 PM)... Nov 14 2005, 08:22 PM _sarcastic_ ^agreed.
just give him a chance, if things get out... Nov 13 2005, 08:26 AM seremela_culnamo Hmm, I wouldn't want someone who drinks or smo... Nov 13 2005, 03:28 PM aznhunnie6o1 I like a guy who smokes pot...
It shouldn't ma... Nov 13 2005, 03:41 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b I live where pretty much every kid has gone throug... Nov 13 2005, 04:03 PM silver rain I would never date a guy that smokes, and drinks u... Nov 13 2005, 04:21 PM sheepy eh.. i dont really think so unless i really really... Nov 13 2005, 04:39 PM pinayprincess you MUST be kidding me ; no Nov 13 2005, 04:53 PM tweeak Smoker, no. It depends on how he drinks. It's ... Nov 13 2005, 04:56 PM nightmare4taki Nope, I would never date a guy even if he didn... Nov 13 2005, 05:01 PM L!ckitySplit well i know it wouldnt be attractive to me if if a... Nov 13 2005, 10:26 PM LittleLulu ok occasional drinking is OK...
smoking is a no-no... Nov 14 2005, 03:07 AM yanners unless he smokes and drinks all the time, then no.... Nov 14 2005, 04:20 AM KissMe2408 I would never date a guy that smokes. That's j... Nov 14 2005, 04:52 PM miss-_-guitar i donno. it would depend on their personality. if ... Nov 14 2005, 05:54 PM lilxl0ser i wouldnt probably see him very taisteful...but i ... Nov 14 2005, 06:23 PM mouse_3k no. if my bf smoked n drank, id dump him n he know... Nov 14 2005, 08:08 PM yourfriendsteph it depends on how social they are about it, becaus... Nov 15 2005, 12:18 PM |
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