obsessed friend, she's obsessed w/ me! |
obsessed friend, she's obsessed w/ me! |
Nov 11 2005, 06:47 PM
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Okay well theres this girl, lets just call her Nikki. Well Nikki and I met last year and at first she seemed nice you know just someone to talk to not a friend. But this year she is seriously obsessed w/ me. She calls me everyday pretending she forgot her homework although I'm only in 1 of her classes and ends up inviting herself over. Plus she always copies me. Like for example I started wearing my charm braclet a few days ago and guess what-BAM! tomarrow she wears her charm braclet. And yesterday I wore my levis guess what she wore today?-Levis. She even copies off my paper sometimes. And it's really hard to avoid her because 1.)She has the same Homeroom. 2.)Her locker is right by mine. 3.)She has one class with me and always follows me. Now she thinks that we're best friends-and I do't even want to be her friend anymore. She is so annoying like I'll be studying in homeroom and she'll hover over me and say what are you doing then if I have my pencil pouch out she'll take it open it find a pencil take it then say can I have this and before I can answer she says thanks. And I'm like Nikki give it back and shes like Gosh Steffie I was just looking. I could just say I don't want ot be friends with her anymore but she's really sensitive and it'd be hard w/ her in homeroom and my locker everyday with her moping around. Plus I had this dream that I said I didn't want to be friends w/ her anymore and then she got ran over by a car. So what should I do???? She drives me NUTS!!! NUTS, NUTS, NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So please help me, please, please, please help me and I will do my best to repay you because you don'y know how crazy she makes me. Thankyou in advance!
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Nov 12 2005, 09:01 PM
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I know what your going through. I been there before, and I still am now. You have to be honest to her, stop pertending you like her, its not worth it in the long run. Either talk to her, or just avoid her completly. Go to your locker at different times if you can, sit somewhere else in homeroom. Although it may hurt her feelings, she will get over it, and just think of her not driving you crazy all the time. Lieing and pertending is doing anything.
I went through this, and just told this girl I never liked her, she got over it, and was upset for the first week, but she had to know, pertending is hard, and totally not worth it. You should tell her before its too late. |
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skp86 obsessed friend Nov 11 2005, 06:47 PM
Kristinaa TALK TALK TALK TALK!
Tell her to leave you a... Nov 11 2005, 07:00 PM
lilxl0ser lols wow if i was in your position i would seriou... Nov 11 2005, 08:17 PM
ermfermoo QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 11 2005, 8:17 PM)lols w... Nov 13 2005, 10:24 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b Try subtly rtying to show her your not her best fr... Nov 11 2005, 08:22 PM
ChibiChimomo well your going to be having to tell her either wa... Nov 11 2005, 10:04 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(skp86 @ Nov 12 2005, 6:47 AM)I could ju... Nov 11 2005, 10:42 PM
add1cted2f1re i dont think i could tell her straight, b/c id fee... Nov 11 2005, 11:10 PM
K!$$ ^ Aww that's not true But understand that thi... Nov 11 2005, 11:20 PM
yanners just tell her, or subtly drop hints. Nov 12 2005, 05:46 AM
Szeh I know how you feel.
But I was 14 and the kid was... Nov 12 2005, 08:33 AM
sw33tii_kagome talk to her about it.. if she doesn't get it t... Nov 12 2005, 10:45 AM
skp86 QUOTE(ChEeR A HOliC Xo @ Nov 12 2005, 10:01 P... Nov 13 2005, 09:54 AM
simx Just tell her to give you space... if she's re... Nov 13 2005, 05:06 PM
skp86 QUOTE(simx @ Nov 13 2005, 6:06 PM)Just tell h... Nov 13 2005, 06:44 PM
resrchmnkyglr6 you should start copying HER....show her how it fe... Nov 13 2005, 11:39 PM
_suzie_ eh...just have fun with her... she obviously looks... Nov 14 2005, 12:12 PM
skp86 QUOTE(_suzie_ @ Nov 14 2005, 1:12 PM)eh...jus... Nov 14 2005, 03:57 PM
miss-_-guitar just tell her that ur happy she looks up to you an... Nov 14 2005, 05:58 PM
skp86 QUOTE(miss-_-guitar @ Nov 14 2005, ... Nov 14 2005, 08:02 PM
Shortiiex in class remind her to copy down her hw
and just d... Nov 14 2005, 09:50 PM
skp86 ^That would work well I just would ditch her and s... Nov 16 2005, 03:37 PM
shawty_redd hmm maybe get a friend to tell her Nov 16 2005, 04:01 PM
_suzie_ ''I don't think she has a good side fr... Nov 16 2005, 05:22 PM![]() ![]() |