Boyfriend//Best friend ISSUE!!! Help?, Gah... Options

[ahmegnutmeg]

Okay, my boyfriend is absolutely the most perfect person in the world for me. He's so unbelievably... Seriously, we're like puzzle pieces. Every part of him connects with me just so perfectly; we're one of those nauseatingly cute couples... Haha, I know it's stupid. But... Okay, over the summer, he was only my best friend. My big brother even. He was actually really really REALLY crushing on my best friend... Like, he wanted to spend the rest of his LIFE with her... And after she gave him a straight "NO." he crawled to me for help. I was on the phone with this boy for twelve hours a day, talking to him, consoling him, comforting him. After a while... We just clicked. I always wondered if I was just her rebound, and I know I was. It's a hell of a lot different now, he says he doesn't think about her at all anymore... And that he loves me more than he could EVER have loved her... And yet, when the three of us are together with a few other close friends... He flirts with her like CRAZY. Sometimes, he'll even ignore me. SHE'S MY BEST FRIEND. WHAT THE HELL IS HE DOING?! And it's not like he doesn't KNOW he's doing it!!! Once, he said "Ruby, I know me and Muna flirt a lot... It doesn't bother you does it?" "No..." YEAH IT BOTHERS ME!!! And my other best friend (his best friend too) tells me, "Don't you ever get jealous? I hear more about Amber and Muna than I hear about you..." What do I do?? I know I should talk to him... But what do I say?

[HuGzNKissEs]

Wow....hows about you turn the tables on him...Don't be clingy..back away from him a while...dont break up just give him room. Dont act upset about anything just pull back & start flirting with other people. If he can do it, you can too! & maybe he'll see what he's doing. Guys don't know what they do is wrong unless you show them exactly what they are doing.
Hope this helps(it works on my b/f!)