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 Oct 31 2005, 04:24 PM
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alright i want to know.... Does anyone here have anything to do with arranged marriage as far as being in one? If not, what do you think of it. Did your parents ever hint on it? Do you know someone who has an arranged marriage? I recently found out my grandpa has a wife from an arranged marriage and a wife from the philippines (my grandma). I basically thought that was disgusting. And he told me he will arrange my marriage  or it's a matter of disownment. My dad said he wouldn't allow that but idk.... at times like these, i wish my grandpa would just grow old and get alzheimers,(well he's old enough to die, he's like 86 or somethin) and it's not like he ever spent time with me...i only see him once a year and all he does is drink beer.
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Nov 12 2005, 01:21 PM
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Arranged marriages are traditional in India. Everyone in my family was married this way, so I guess I'd have to suffer this fate as well. The thing with arranged marriages is that they actually work. Not all the time, if lets say you have an abusive husband, but most of the time, you learn to live with the other person no matter what their faults may be. Divorces are very uncommon, and no one wants to disappoint their parents so most people try to make an arranged marriage work. You may have heard this, but in America, you fall in love and then get married. In India, you get married, then you fall in love. Most people are happy with their lives in an arranged marriage, so I don't understand why people say it's such a bad thing. Look at the divorce rates of an area where love marriages are common and you'll see what I'm talking about.
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andromeda_90 arranged marriages Oct 31 2005, 04:24 PM
tequila_sky Don't worry if your dad said he doesn't ap... Oct 31 2005, 05:40 PM o0olaalaa i think its rong. people should marry someone they... Oct 31 2005, 06:05 PM
Oranite QUOTE(o0olaalaa @ Oct 31 2005, 4:05 PM)i thin... Nov 12 2005, 01:11 PM _sarcastic_ ^i agree. i don't know anyone that is in an a... Oct 31 2005, 06:58 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b My friends parents were arranged in marriage. The ... Oct 31 2005, 07:12 PM LittleLulu i really think its not that bad of an idea.
mostly... Oct 31 2005, 10:14 PM Chii the idea is wrong but it can be a beautiful story.... Oct 31 2005, 10:22 PM mouse_3k my best friend has a arranged marriage. She has a ... Oct 31 2005, 10:31 PM miz_sunshine My mom said if I'm not married by the time i t... Oct 31 2005, 10:33 PM ChibiChimomo aww poor yen! not cool not cool at all :[ but ... Oct 31 2005, 11:02 PM andromeda_90 ^awww lol thanks lindsey
QUOTEMy friends parents ... Nov 1 2005, 05:10 PM not_your_average My parents went through an arranged marriage. Sure... Nov 1 2005, 06:44 PM Shortiiex i would never do an arranged marriage...i think ev... Nov 1 2005, 06:51 PM KissMe2408 Man, an arranged marriage? ah...to me that's a... Nov 2 2005, 01:38 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Nov 2 2005, 1:38 PM)Man, a... Nov 2 2005, 06:10 PM KissMe2408 QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 2 2005, 6:10 PM)OHHH... Nov 2 2005, 07:16 PM justdecent Okay, so obviously, there is a lot to be said for ... Nov 2 2005, 06:54 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(justdecent @ Nov 2 2005, 6:54 PM)Okay, ... Nov 2 2005, 07:03 PM Blue-Chan I am not a fan of arranged marriage.
Only if you a... Nov 2 2005, 07:02 PM inquisitive_ I don't necessarily agree with it. A person sh... Nov 2 2005, 07:07 PM andromeda_90 err then how come marraige was applicable too? err... Nov 2 2005, 07:59 PM KissMe2408 ^lol i have no idea why. Grammar and Spelling...yu... Nov 2 2005, 08:38 PM angel_revelation ... your grandpa can't disown you you're... Nov 2 2005, 09:52 PM x_lilvietdreamer_x reminds me of apu in the simpsons Nov 3 2005, 04:44 PM andromeda_90 ^oyeah! lol i remember that Nov 4 2005, 01:52 PM ILUVELMO2212 WOULDNT HAVING ARRANGED MARRIGES SUCK BECAUSE YOO... Nov 5 2005, 07:03 PM d4z3 eh. Arranged marriages can be good and bad at time... Nov 5 2005, 07:18 PM andromeda_90 ^thanks! but right now, I think I won't mi... Nov 5 2005, 07:27 PM d4z3 ^aren't you still a teenager? You still have y... Nov 5 2005, 07:36 PM andromeda_90 yup i just did lol Nov 5 2005, 07:54 PM Soleil Due to religious beliefs it happens a lot. But som... Nov 11 2005, 12:25 AM sw33tii_kagome arrange marriages r old.. ppl dun do tat anymore..... Nov 12 2005, 12:57 PM Szeh ^Not nessecarily, my relatives had an arranged mar... Nov 12 2005, 01:03 PM WindSorcerous Marriage should be between two people who love eac... Nov 12 2005, 01:03 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(mona lisa @ Nov 12 2005, 1:21 PM)Arrang... Nov 12 2005, 08:57 PM HuGzNKissEs My cousin's parents are all for arranged marri... Nov 12 2005, 01:55 PM |
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