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 Oct 31 2005, 04:24 PM
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alright i want to know.... Does anyone here have anything to do with arranged marriage as far as being in one? If not, what do you think of it. Did your parents ever hint on it? Do you know someone who has an arranged marriage? I recently found out my grandpa has a wife from an arranged marriage and a wife from the philippines (my grandma). I basically thought that was disgusting. And he told me he will arrange my marriage  or it's a matter of disownment. My dad said he wouldn't allow that but idk.... at times like these, i wish my grandpa would just grow old and get alzheimers,(well he's old enough to die, he's like 86 or somethin) and it's not like he ever spent time with me...i only see him once a year and all he does is drink beer.
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Oct 31 2005, 06:05 PM
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i think its rong. people should marry someone they love.
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Nov 12 2005, 01:11 PM
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QUOTE(o0olaalaa @ Oct 31 2005, 4:05 PM) i think its rong. people should marry someone they love.  Yea I agree. My parents are kinda in an arranged marriage... my grandparents on both my mom and dads side got together and highly influenced and/or told them to marry each other even though they didn't like each other at all. Im not sure if there was any agreement between them and probably will never find out... but my parents never loved each other and still regrets alot of what they have done. I think the only reason they stay together is because of my little 2 brothers(big mistake). Since now that I'm independent and all... So yea I highly agree with you that you should marry someone out of love and not on what your parents say and if you parents or grandparents say that they'll disown you because you don't agree with theit demands then say screw them. I know that if I'm ever forced into an arranged marrage I would rather leave and suffer a harsh early independent life(if they actually did it before I was independent) then to comply with my parents wishes. (though I'm pretty sure that such a thing would never happen because my dad tells me every day that I should never marry someone because of what there parents say. Marry out of love) |
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andromeda_90 arranged marriages Oct 31 2005, 04:24 PM
tequila_sky Don't worry if your dad said he doesn't ap... Oct 31 2005, 05:40 PM _sarcastic_ ^i agree. i don't know anyone that is in an a... Oct 31 2005, 06:58 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b My friends parents were arranged in marriage. The ... Oct 31 2005, 07:12 PM LittleLulu i really think its not that bad of an idea.
mostly... Oct 31 2005, 10:14 PM Chii the idea is wrong but it can be a beautiful story.... Oct 31 2005, 10:22 PM mouse_3k my best friend has a arranged marriage. She has a ... Oct 31 2005, 10:31 PM miz_sunshine My mom said if I'm not married by the time i t... Oct 31 2005, 10:33 PM ChibiChimomo aww poor yen! not cool not cool at all :[ but ... Oct 31 2005, 11:02 PM andromeda_90 ^awww lol thanks lindsey
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andromeda_90 QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Nov 2 2005, 1:38 PM)Man, a... Nov 2 2005, 06:10 PM KissMe2408 QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 2 2005, 6:10 PM)OHHH... Nov 2 2005, 07:16 PM justdecent Okay, so obviously, there is a lot to be said for ... Nov 2 2005, 06:54 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(justdecent @ Nov 2 2005, 6:54 PM)Okay, ... Nov 2 2005, 07:03 PM Blue-Chan I am not a fan of arranged marriage.
Only if you a... Nov 2 2005, 07:02 PM inquisitive_ I don't necessarily agree with it. A person sh... Nov 2 2005, 07:07 PM andromeda_90 err then how come marraige was applicable too? err... Nov 2 2005, 07:59 PM KissMe2408 ^lol i have no idea why. Grammar and Spelling...yu... Nov 2 2005, 08:38 PM angel_revelation ... your grandpa can't disown you you're... Nov 2 2005, 09:52 PM x_lilvietdreamer_x reminds me of apu in the simpsons Nov 3 2005, 04:44 PM andromeda_90 ^oyeah! lol i remember that Nov 4 2005, 01:52 PM ILUVELMO2212 WOULDNT HAVING ARRANGED MARRIGES SUCK BECAUSE YOO... Nov 5 2005, 07:03 PM d4z3 eh. Arranged marriages can be good and bad at time... Nov 5 2005, 07:18 PM andromeda_90 ^thanks! but right now, I think I won't mi... Nov 5 2005, 07:27 PM d4z3 ^aren't you still a teenager? You still have y... Nov 5 2005, 07:36 PM andromeda_90 yup i just did lol Nov 5 2005, 07:54 PM Soleil Due to religious beliefs it happens a lot. But som... Nov 11 2005, 12:25 AM sw33tii_kagome arrange marriages r old.. ppl dun do tat anymore..... Nov 12 2005, 12:57 PM Szeh ^Not nessecarily, my relatives had an arranged mar... Nov 12 2005, 01:03 PM WindSorcerous Marriage should be between two people who love eac... Nov 12 2005, 01:03 PM mona lisa Arranged marriages are traditional in India. Every... Nov 12 2005, 01:21 PM andromeda_90 QUOTE(mona lisa @ Nov 12 2005, 1:21 PM)Arrang... Nov 12 2005, 08:57 PM HuGzNKissEs My cousin's parents are all for arranged marri... Nov 12 2005, 01:55 PM |
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