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do guys really act that way?
toria66622
post Nov 11 2005, 01:27 PM
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I alwayz get mad at my boyfriend for the stupidest things...like If he didnt call me back at a certain time or If I can talk to him for at least 10-15 min. a day I get so mad and take it out on him...He loves me to death and says that nothing I do can irritate him or make him mad at me...
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Do guys really do that? and feel that much in love to let his g/f flip out a little?
I LOVE him to death and I'd do anything for him.. I get scared of loosing him cause of my attitude:( whats ur opinion??
 
 
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Chii
post Nov 12 2005, 12:39 PM
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i'm sorry but a year isn't all that long, if you do get married, a year will seem like 5 minutes. sure people can deal with someone poking at them for maybe 2 years but after awhile, it's going to catch up to him and he's going to be like "why do i put up with this sh*t?"

love is blind but it won't be blind forever, eventually someone will point it out to him how you get annoyed at him for dumb things.

just because you talk to him for like 10-15 minutes doesn't mean much, you should both talk to each other because you want to, not because you feel like you obligated to, to keep your relationship good/strong.

relationships are about compromise, you need to let go of stupid little things like missed phone calls.
 
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post Nov 12 2005, 12:44 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ Nov 12 2005, 12:39 PM)
i'm sorry but a year isn't all that long, if you do get married, a year will seem like 5 minutes. sure people can deal with someone poking at them for maybe 2 years but after awhile, it's going to catch up to him and he's going to be like "why do i put up with this sh*t?"

love is blind but it won't be blind forever, eventually someone will point it out to him how you get annoyed at him for dumb things.

just because you talk to him for like 10-15 minutes doesn't mean much, you should both talk to each other because you want to, not because you feel like you obligated to, to keep your relationship good/strong.

relationships are about compromise, you need to let go of stupid little things like missed phone calls.

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Completely agreed. Just because he isn't saying anything now doesn't mean he won't say anything later. And you thinking that you can bitch at him because he won't leave you for that shows that you have somewhat of a superiority complex.
 

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toria66622   do guys really act that way?   Nov 11 2005, 01:27 PM
jEllyBeaNs   well i think u need to calm down a little. u kno ...   Nov 11 2005, 01:34 PM
aera   the two of you may love each other to death and al...   Nov 11 2005, 01:38 PM
Fabio.   this needs to be moved to relationships, I think.   Nov 11 2005, 01:38 PM
silver rain   Relationships? Eh, I used to be like you, and but ...   Nov 11 2005, 01:46 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   QUOTE(silver rain @ Nov 11 2005, 11:46 AM)Rel...   Nov 11 2005, 02:27 PM
o0olaalaa   try not to be too clingy and you won't lose hi...   Nov 11 2005, 03:06 PM
toria66622   thanx everyone:) the ideas are helpful, Im jus gun...   Nov 11 2005, 03:11 PM
graceful620   I think that u should just tell him why u get so a...   Nov 11 2005, 03:16 PM
jooleeah   moved to relationships.   Nov 11 2005, 03:38 PM
lilxl0ser   hmm if i were you i would try to find another way ...   Nov 11 2005, 05:17 PM
boobooxpp   haha...that's funny...i do the same!! ...   Nov 11 2005, 05:43 PM
K!$$   Wow.. it was sweet of your bf to let it go when yo...   Nov 11 2005, 11:13 PM
add1cted2f1re   b1tch, i woulda dumped ur @ss! lol, jk... i ha...   Nov 11 2005, 11:21 PM
c4rL4   i was like you. but i guess. to guys its normal re...   Nov 12 2005, 02:39 AM
yanners   you sound kind of clingy. chill out, don't ge...   Nov 12 2005, 05:39 AM
sw33tii_kagome   chill!! dunget mad over little things.. if...   Nov 12 2005, 10:55 AM
toria66622   I am not that clingy as all u might think. I leave...   Nov 12 2005, 12:27 PM
Chii   i'm sorry but a year isn't all that long, ...   Nov 12 2005, 12:39 PM
ermfermoo   QUOTE(Chii @ Nov 12 2005, 12:39 PM)i'm so...   Nov 12 2005, 12:44 PM
aznhunnie6o1   Eeh.. I used to get mad at my ex over the littlest...   Nov 12 2005, 12:50 PM


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