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[nightowl89]

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So basically...

Last year over the summer I met this guy "Cole". It was only for ten days at a music festival and I'm usually shy around crushes so although we did talk some and exchanged e-mails it was much more just catching each other's stares (hehe)

we're still in touch right now, a year and a half later...but he's extremely smart and musically talented (Harvard and NEC!) SO he's reallly busy and so am I with hs and my music stuff making the corespondences like...once a month either by e-mail or AIM. I do have his number but I feel weird and kinda desperate if I call out of the blue. Plus its a bit scary for me that he's in collge cuz im a junior in hs...its only 2 yrs but still.

It's really killing me that I havn't seen him in so long, but if I get into this thing for school coming up in March I'll be able to see him(!) There havn't been any announcements about this program yet tho. He's told me that he wants to see me again too...even sorta joked about me sleeping over in his "common room"

...srry about the lenght of that...Just any comments would be great but I guess what it comes down to is: Do you think there's a chance he still likes me too?

[Just_Dream]

Well, a year is a long time. It really depends. What kind of conversations did you have with him? I'm not telling you to spill out it all, but I mean you should consider WHAT you said to him and WHAT he said to you. BTW, does he have a gf? I mean, a year and a half--that's a long time, and nowadays I've noticed people get in (and out of) relationships fast, especially in college lol. So you gotta make sure his status is a-okay.

Also, take it slow. Hey, maybe you two could meet up with a group of friends or something, that way you'll feel safe, since he is older than you. Wow he goes to Harvard? Awesome. :]

Anyway to answer your question, YES there is a chance. There's always a chance. It might be a slim chance, but hey you never know! You never know unless you actually ask him what he thinks about you. :] And if there isn't, then it's okay. Maybe something might develop later on. Don't make it weird between you two if he doesn't like you back.

Oh yea, and age shouldn't matter, unless he's like 12 years older than you or something lol. Remember that you're still a minor.