boyfriend confusion?, to believe or not to believe? Options

[HuGzNKissEs]

Here it goes...
Saturday night was homecoming in my lil town & my boyfriend of 3 years & I went together(of course!) & well when we left my boyfriend's mom(who was drunk) went to visit my mom. They started talking about me & my boyfriend & HIS mom said a lot of things like him not loving me as much as i love him & him not being as committed & that scared her. She also said that he only wants me when its convienent for him. Like even if he's not doing anything he'll put off calling me & stuff but expects me to drop everything at his call. She also said that he thinks I am whipped & would do whatever he says. But my mom told me all this & grant it my mom exaggerates A LOT & his mom says A LOT of weird things when shes drunk. So i kinda talked to him about it(didnt give him many details) & he swears up & down that he's had no intention of us breaking up EVER. (& for the note i am a virgin so that is not why he's with me!) & well now my mom is yelling at me telling me to break up with him & stuff & i just dont know what to do! sorry if i left out details just ask! please give advice though!

[lit0chinagirl]

man i can't help but to feel like my ex treated me the way that your bf's mom said yours was supposedly treating you -- ugh, such bad memories.
anyways, people say a lot of things when they're drunk so maybe that's only her opinion of things. she's probably just being a little overprotected and thinks that her son would be better off without a girlfriend maybe. people are always stirring up things.
so if you feel as though you and him are doing well and that he'll stick with you through rough times and all, you shouldn't worry. i mean you've been together for 3 years already, right? i just hope that the thought of a possible breakup doesnt continously haunt your mind because yeah, it'll affect the way you are around him.